You've quietly been banging someone's partner behind their back. Do you ever worry you'll slip up talking to them and give the game way? Or have you already done so?
When you doing someone else's partner are you ever worried you'll slip up?
It’s funny but it actually happened to me. But in a very different context. All people involved were polyamorous. I’ve been seeing this woman for a few weeks, and we had lots of sex. Lots. The kind that leaves bruises on her skin. One weekend she asks me to get a drink with her primary partner. I’d met him only once already, cool guy, pretty open about sex and fetish. At some point he says something about a specific fantasy of submission he has, and how she did not feel like satisfying it. She laughed explaining that she’s too submissive herself. I laughed, like, haha, I think I’ve already seen that. He looks at her with a wait what kind of face and she gets red and panicky.
It turned out that she only told him that we were going out and she was too embarrassed to talk about the sex for the most ridiculous reason. Not jealousy or anything. She did in fact mention it to him, but he’d misunderstood thinking she was talking about a lady friend they wanted to involve in a threesome. She didn’t want to get his hopes down so she didn’t correct the misunderstanding. And she didn’t know how to get out of the situation.
He was super cool about it. Excited, even. But we did not end up having a threesome. The three of them did, I think, but I don’t know the details.
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No I’m good at manipulating and Experience no Guilt so Lying isn’t an issue for me and I’ve been cheating on my girl named Stacy for months I’ll go to a Hotel spend a few hours there and if Stacy ask where I been at I will provide proof where I was at by simply showing her a receipt of What I purchased her then we will walk to the car and I will give her the food 🥘 I bought her as well as any other gifts 🎁 works every time After all I show her actual proof and I mean sure it took hours but here’s a photo of me at the mall I’ll even send her pictures of things I think she will like and all she has to do is pick 1 of the items And the picture will be a older photo I will also have newer photos to provide the date and proof that that’s the date that I went to the mall and the old photos get deleted when I decide they are no longer needed or I put them in a Locked folder 📁 that is A work folder which Stacy respects my work stuff because she knows I value my job and keeping the private information that my job has is one of the things I gotta keep to myself and Stacy knows that. She Trust me so much and Knows I will never do anything to Ruin our relationship. So it’s easy to manipulate her All I do is manipulate because I’ve got my girlfriend Stacy then I’ve got the other girl that I Fuck on a daily or few day basis.
I never banged some else wife or girl friend that I knew personally or consider a friend. I mean that is pretty low like, pound scum sucking low and I knew I would trip up or tell them because it would be impossible for myself to live with myself.
I men cheating with some ones else SO behind their back... I mean it is some one you know you will have to deal with in you day to day friend or not that is risky. I would be more worried about the other person blowing it for you and less worried about you slipping up. Cheaters cheat for reasons and eventually the longer they do it the more likely they are to spill the beans just to unnerve their husband or boyfriend or get revenge.
But I banged women who were dating other guys I never knew and didn't care about. Its not like they were married or I ever made an promises to them about it or even knew them.
It can happen but it works best when you both have partners as you dont have to worry about them going full mental on you and turning up at your door or something equally annoying.
If you keep to the rules, no phone calls in the evening, dont dress up too smart, dont spend too much etc and have a code word for text chats to know if its "safe", make the partners aware that you are both friends and it all be fine and you can easily get out of any accidental slip of the tongue ;)
Wow this shit gets crazy when you're a guy. One girl, her boyfriend left his U. S. Marine base to come beat my ass. And then this other girl, she was a lesbian, the whole lesbian crew ganged up on me and influenced her to call the cops. The good ones just let you join in on the fun, but they're rare.
I was fucking my work acquaintance’s wife for two years. We couldn’t stay away from one another and we were adventurous to the point of stupidity. Everything was fine until I was invited to a picnic at their house. I was alone with her in the kitchen and she stuck her tongue in my ear. I responded by running my hand up her soft inner thigh on my way to her ass when I looked up…. and staring at us through an open window was her husband. Needless to say, that was the day it ended.
My "friend" slipped when talking with my wife. Basically she admitted to having the hots for me and wants to hook up. She also mentioned what she dreamed married life would be with me.
How she allowed herself to get to that point, I dont know. So a week later when i told my friend I was having a problem with her, she began crying. She knew it was over.
This question is what's wrong with society. Why do you wanna do people's partners anyway? I cannot for the life of me understand the mentality of homewreckers.
@I_Can_Help I can sense a hint of sarcasm in there, but I stand on what I said. Divorce rate is high, marriage rate is low, and birth rate outside of marriage is high, and then we have questions like this. If you are OK with degeneracy, I can't help ya.
I simply would never play that game so close to home. Side chicks are never someone the wife has ever met or ever will meet. That stuff is kept worlds apart.
As for a girl has been on both ends of this. I wouldn't do it. Cause karma is a bitch. And I wouldn't want someone hanging my man behind my back! I actually may kill them if I ever catch him in bed with someone else.
Cesar replies "if I wanted two I would have asked for two "
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Do you like cheaters? Or is it just "ok" if it's not happening to you? lol Not trying to start an argument, it's a serious question because I always find this fascinating how women go on about guy's cheating, yet THEY will sleep with unavailable men!
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