I mean is it really necessary for both partners to fear losing each other? I mean an relationship would work if both partners fear losing each other. And Due to this fear they would do anything to keep the relationship alive. This is my opinion though. And Another question.. If someone doesn't fear losing their partner then won't they fight to keep the relationship alive?
I think that your fear is very real, and yes, it is scary to believe one day you could lose the person you found and fell in love with. You never want it to stop, but it has to. It's in the plan.
My boyfriend, the one who we made special promises to stay together for evah (that's how he used to say it) died suddenly September 7, last month.
Which makes me think of a wise old man I met at the airport while waiting for my husband's plane to land. This man could see I couldn't wait to see my love again. And these words have never left me "Don't build your whole world around just one person, because if they're gone one day you'll fall apart". Well, a few years later that came true. My husband that I was so deeply in love with abandoned me and our new little boy. I fell apart. I didn't eat for three months. I only drank milk everyday. I couldn't eat. I had a new little baby to nurish and help him to keep thriving - which I did an excellent job at 🙂.
My ex-husband did get remarried a couple more times, but they didn't last.
I thought he would never leave me, but he did.
So, love each other for as long as you can, but be ready for the end to come, even if you two are 80 years old when one of you passes away.
I wish you two the very best. God speed!✌️
No.
Fearing losing your partner is just going to lead to paranoia, controlling, clinginess, irrational behavior and do what you don't want to do - drive that person away.
In a relationship meant to last there is very little fear of losing your partner because you trust them, because you have a bond. Usually the longest lasting relationships are between people who start off as well friends essentially & decide hey yeah I really like you.
This is what a LOT of Americans in particular are getting wrong nowadays. They hook up with everyone shows them interest & expect something to last when there's no foundation, no bond. It's why marriage so typically in USA last only a few years now.
They married a stranger, not a partner.
I have been in relationships where I just knew it was not a matter of if she would dump me but more like when.
I have been married for over 25 years and I never had a moment when I thought she would dump me. Maybe that is how I knew we would be together for ever.
I think you should always be courting your S. O., but I'm not going to be afraid that she leaves me.
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No. You have to accept it even if it hurts, If your partner wants to leave it’s better to them go and start healing them to stay with them and keep hurting. It hurts being with someone one you want to be with that wants someone else. Just let them go and do yourself a favor. Make room for the person who loves you to come in.
I think it is a normal situation in almost every kind of relationship, but we should not let it affect our life or our relationship. In every relationship you are already aware of the bad scenarios that can happen, but you're still trying. That's the only way to live. Even if the fear of loss comes to mind, it is important not to torture yourself by thinking about it too much.
People die, it's what we're here for. The important thing is to leave behind enough people to remember you lovingly.
No, why would anyone want to live in fear of anything?
Don’t even think you should be in the relationship if you don’t trust them to stay
All the time. Even the most "perfect" relationships, can die
No lol
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