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If it was a girl I would 100% help her out no questions asked but she just can’t ever go back. I don’t mind getting any and possibly every guy that I know to get involved right along with me. If it was a guy I’m just to help him get out of there
Just bring some reliable people with you and call police if things gets heated when picking your friend up and record with camera everything, it's not nice to abandon her when she sounds so helpless and scared.
Well... Don't be sad, poster you did try, cheer up!
Tell her a time you will pick her up and then she can meet you outside. Be sure you have your cell phone in case you need to call 911. She really needs your help to get out of the abuse.
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Yes definitely help her! However from your first reply it doesn’t seem like you want to or will. If she is in so much danger you fear for your life then;
1) this is not a situation that only you should be involved.
2) cops should be involved, however if you fear cops then you need to get some friends together.
3) if you feel in danger imagine how she feels. You need to get her out no matter what it takes or she could die.
Good answer
Dye her hair and shit when she escapes
I've done it before, but you can only do it if she wants help. Saying she is afraid might be a red flag, but if she doesn't really want to leave there is nothing you can do.
Pick her up and drop her off with someone you both trust and tell NOBODY. Preferably out of the area.
And absolutely, have earlier this year and I would again. I'm not afraid of violence nor am I afraid of inflicting it.
I would go there with a police escort to save her from the abusive boyfriend.
@Pink2000 It's sad if there is alcohol involved
I wouldn't want to put myself in danger knowing she may go back to him. It took my mom 10 years to get a way from her abuser. My advice is if she really wants to get away cut ties with any friends that are also friends with him if she doesn't word of her were about will get back to him.
Yes! I have friends who have undergone emotional abuse and provide my support regularly and advise of next actions to take. It's all I can do and the rest is up to your friend to decide - but at least with this route you're providing thought out guidance!
She needs to gather as much evidence of the abuse as she can and so do you. This animal needs to be put in jail or in the ground. I have no qualm of doing ether or to save a life
In that situation I would help her, and make complete clear to her that there is no single instance where you shall stay with someone who is abusive.
From that on, it's up to her to decide.
Yes of course, I'd bring him/her to my house for a bit until they're ready to leave, and i'd probably call the cops on there spouse for abuse.
I couldn't say no to my friend if she/he asked me for help. At least a ride to the police station or shelter.
Yeah I would help a friend in this situation, it can be scary to put yourself in danger, but it's better to help and to find a solution together
Pick her up anonymously. As for my friends who were abused, they choose not to leave so i stopped trying to help
Your friend may need you to encourage her to leave or at least speak kindness and love into her so she knows her worth.
I would of course but with help of police or someone else for my protection as well.
Call the cops for her omg? does she not want to call the cops? she's not okay with it so she needs help. Call her parents or anyone close who can help her
I have helped an acquaintance in an abusive relationship.
Yes I would but I'd also get a restraining order on the partner.