Girls, If your friend was abusive in her relationships would you side with her and blame the guy?

[Anonymous]

Just curious if this happens or if someone stands up to what is wrong

[Hawkes_Lady]

I tell it like it is. My friends all know that. I am brutely honest whether my answer hurts your feelings or not. If my friend was being abusive, I would tell her to knock it off and that she was one tone causing the problems. But I would do the same if it was the guy causing the issues and hurting my friend.

[Asker]

Yeah her friend let her talk shit about me and knew all the abuse she put me through but chose to blame me

[Hawkes_Lady]

*was the one*

[Hawkes_Lady]

No, that wouldn't fly with me. I will call you out and stand up for the one that is in the right. There is no reason to be abusive in any circumstances. I am hoping this was emotional and/or mental abuse, and not physically abusive... I am sorry for the abuse you saw from these women, it's not right. No person should be abused, be it male or female, in any form.

[Asker]

Oh no it was both she hit me twice in the head and would constantly get in my face like she was gonna hit me. She was also verbally abusive calling me a bitch, stupid mother fucker. She also hit and kicked our dog once she slammed him on his crate causing a dent

[Hawkes_Lady]

Oh, I am so very sorry for you and your dog. Please tell me you and your dog are no longer in this situation. No one deserves to be abused in any way. I abhor violence. We should be able to control ourselves and talk situations out. And if you can't then you have no place getting into a relationship with another.

You're not still with her and in that abusive situation are you?

[Asker]

No I’m not

[Hawkes_Lady]

I am glad that you're not in that situation anymore.

[BrightBubblyKat]

I wouldn’t blame the guy, but my loyalty would be to her if the guy wasn’t my friend.