Do you think that most women and men would rather go out with someone "of their own caliber"?

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Would you be uncomfortable going out with someone you felt was much more educated than you are, or on the other spectrum, who had much less education than you?

I presonally would feel a little inferior to someone with a much higher degree, etc than I had. I wouldn't be able to help feelign that way. I also don't think I can be with someone who never graduated from high school. I don't think we'd have much in common. My feeling is commonality is very important, but not crucial, in a realtionship.

caring__1 · Accepted Answer

I have earned my share of degrees, but I still find I can learn something from most everyone I meet. My son has surpassed me in many areas, though I do hold more degrees, yet we still have wonderful intriguing conversations we both find to be eye opening. We both enjoy teaching each other things the other doesn't know. There are plenty of people who have acquired their education by means other than university. I don't minimize knowledge acquired away from a classroom. I actually get turned off to people who feel a need to show off and appear superior to others. I don't see them as more educated than me. The last thing I want to do is limit my dating pool to only those who possess the same degrees as me. I actually feel more comfortable with people I share interests with than hanging around academia. Though I've never given birth, I feel no reluctance to learn from those who have. Everyone has something special to offer.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

We often prefer to associate with people most like us, but there interesting opportunities to experience differences. For example, maybe that someone with more education than you knows about things you'd really like to know about but never took the time to do so. There is fun in differences.

weysally · Accepted Answer

just because some people have a high degree in education it doesn't mean that they can converse, give me someone that has travelled a lot, talk can move from one subject to another, because they most likely have seen things for themselves, I know a guy that hasn't much education but oh boy, I an listen to him all night long

KatherineJ · Accepted Answer

While opposites attract, I am sure that people (male and female) prefer someone of a similar background.

mstbooblover · Answer

Going out with someone of a different education level, whether higher or lower, does not bother me at all. Actually I don't give a damn. Everything depends on the human qualities of that person, having a high degree, being never a guarantee for real intelligence, compassion, tact, etc. Nice people of good will can be found in every layer of the population, whatever their level of education.

Actually, a person needing to call upon a some high degree to dominate someone else only proves him- or herself to be very insecure. No offense meant.

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't care about calibers... lol, never been insecure about them either, I just don't see people as belonging to "leagues"

any person with any degree whatsoever, will have a higher degree than me because I don't even have a degree lmao, and that doesn't matter to me

also, I would never look down on anyone that didn't complete high-school either because that could happen for many different reasons

the smartest girl I've ever met in my life (and I am talking highly intelligent in mathematics as well as physics) she never went to college, she quit high-school, and her business, which she started herself was making the same profits in four months than I did in a year... so yeah, she wasn't dumb in any way, lol

people are and can be a whole lot more than all the books they've studied and read about, that is for sure

Phoenix98 · Answer

That’s the thing about “leagues” and “calibers”.

just because someone veiws you as let’s say an 8 doesn’t mean that someone else who’s viewed as the same caliber is gonna think you on her level and vice versa.

its all subjective.

If you find someone you really like who you have great chemistry with and who feels the same and y’all wanna be together then be together who cares if one is rich, attractive and educated and the other is just average across the board. If they are happy together that’s what matters.

And just remember money can run out, looks can fade and education does not equal intelligence.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Well for women they want someone who is at their level or higher in every way. The only thing ill have an issue with is the other person's lack of experience. If I want to raise a family Ill need someone who has been through stuff to know she'll be able to handle hardships.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Education doesn’t equate to intelligence. I prefer smart people. I don’t think i’d be put off by a much smarter woman unless she was high on herself about it.

AimeeKyle · Answer

Yes, although there are many insecure individuals that will want to be with someone they feel is inferior to them. They somehow feel this will help them have more control over their situation/relationship.

Cancerianwoman · Answer

that's a hard one as they may not be as educated than I or more whatever the case may be but they amay be in other areas of life.

In_Trance · Answer

of course. relationships fail when people don't do this

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