What is your view on open relationship?

[Anonymous]

What would you do if your loved one offered such a relationship?

Not for me

Ok, let's try

[Greedier]

in my opinion open relationship is absolute rubbish, sorry for the word but I really think this way.

Getting into one is like harming yourself, cos one never knows.
Maybe you'll end up developing deeper feelings for that someone than you ever thought would be possible.

So, at the end you'll be feeling miserable and empty. At the end everything will feel pointless and senseless, you'll be hurt. And worse, it'll be totally your fault.

[SecretsofKB]

I think it can be done. That being said, I know I can't be a part of an open relationship.

It takes a certain kind of person, and that person is not me. I will get jealous and I will worry. I would not be able to be a part of that in a healthy manner.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’d prefer a committed relationship to stay just the two of us. But could see as we age the possibly for opening to a degree as long as there is strong love and trust between us.

[Asker]

Sometimes I think so too, but I can't stop thinking about trying it for sexual purposes.

[BarryLiverstone]

Novelty is exciting no doubt. The fantasy does supercharge some urges. Do you think you could be with someone else and still love your partner?

[Asker]

I can love my man in any way, so I'm sure of myself, but I don't know if my man can look like me, I'm not jealous, but I'm not too eager to share my man :D That's why I'm undecided anyway.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya I know you are just exploring and haven’t made any firm plans. But def make sure it’s a fair set of rules and if you can’t share him that’s prob a deal breaker in the end right?

[Asker]

Maybe I'm talking like this because I don't even have a closed relationship at the moment :D Of course, if I want to try this, equality is very important. If I was sure that I wouldn't be jealous, I think I would just have an open relationship, maybe I can get over it with a reliable partner.

[BarryLiverstone]

Now I get what you are hinting at. Well like I said establish that trust first. Then you get to play ;)

[BarryLiverstone]

Would you wanna be involved in finding other people or would you rather not know?

[Asker]

Finding someone who will accept it, even though it is difficult in my country. I think it's best to let it go😂

[Asker]

Sometimes I find them for fun, but not always.

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh that must only add to the fantasy if in your country it’s difficult. Now I’m curious why it’s a challenge. You can follow me and educate me on what your plan is

[Asker]

I followed u, my nick starts with nky.. :)

[Guy13]

Horrible practice and both self and relational destructive in EVERY way

[Asker]

Sometimes I think so too, but sometimes I say that it is necessary to be open to innovations and try...

[Guy13]

The number three is a wrong number incapable of ever working. Tow bond and one is left out. It is not hard to see that this is starting in a Loss position. And, the diseases and all the other health related concerns. I simply do not see a plus in it. Maybe, I am the only one...

[GreatnessBack]

Open relationship = "I can freely cheat on you without you saying anything because you agreed to it."

[Asker]

It only has limits like sexuality, but I'm undecided anyway.

[GreatnessBack]

I don't understand "limits like sexuality"
Can you please elaborate?

[Asker]

Of course, I don't want my partner to have sex with someone else every day, but it might be better for both of us to be honest with each other once in a while. I need to trust that my partner will not take the only ons relation to the emotional level. But I'm not sure if I've never tried it so maybe I'll be very jealous :D

[GreatnessBack]

I see.
Having three some where both of you planned it is ok to me. Once done, it's done.
Open relationship start off with both parties knowing the other's side piece, but quickly devolves into the side piece becoming the main course.
It makes no sense to me. If you want someone else, then cut it and go for someone else. Simple.

[Rainstorm2022]

Not for me.

I tend to get super attached to my partners. I also tend to pick hot ones to pursue and there's no way in hell I want to share her, or risk losing her.

[whereismyjohnny]

Not for me. I can’t see myself being into it ever but to each their own.

[Kaneki05]

Don't really work when I get jealous of other guys easy and is clingy.

[Anonymous]

It has worked for us for years.

[Asker]

How did it start and what are your limits?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Sounds like a good way to bring in STDs into your life.

[Asker]

Valid for one night stands...

[Sparkie460]

I prefer a commitment between both partners. I can't imagine being with anyone else but my wife.

[panamared1]

Give it a try