If my boyfriend does not integrate with my family nor my friends. Is that a reason to break up?

[Anonymous]

We have been together for more than 3 years now but this issue keeps. creating fights. He doesn't integrate or at least try with the people in my life

[joeldalton]

Put it to you this way. You don't have to break up, but it's never going to make for harmony in your life. Stay with him as long as you want this discord.

[spartan55]

What do you mean by integrate.

[Asker]

doesn't want to go to family events or out with my friends

[spartan55]

Are you the same race?

[Bellona]

That's not relevant if her boyfriend loves her he will try his best to make her happy and try to integrate

[spartan55]

@Bellona
I'm sorry who tf are you? Her bodyguard? It's completely relevant. Of course, you add the 'if he loves her he will blah blah'... so stupid.
Dude is definitely wrong, but op is desperate if she has stayed 3 years... what are you expecting to change at this point?

[Bellona]

Then what are you expecting to change at this point by asking 'are you the same race?'

[spartan55]

Who said anything about changing anything?