Is my boyfriend in the wrong for ending our relationship because we don’t mentally connect?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend wants to end our relationship because we don't "mentally connect" and he says I talk at an elementary school level and he told me he wants to find someone who talks more at his level. It's not my fault I talk in an elementary school level because I have a disability that affects my communication so it’s not something I can change about myself. I don't want to be single for life because of this. Is he wrong for breaking up with me because of this and not just accept me for who I am?

[MisterWack]

You are perfect the way you are and you’ll find someone who loves you for you.

Just because you two don’t connect, doesn’t mean you won’t connect with someone.

You can’t change who you are, you also can’t change who he is.

Find someone who will appreciate you, respect you, and treat you the way you’d like to be treated because you are worthy of love. A genuine love, that guy was a fake.

[Cyfris]

No he is not wrong. He is doing what is right for him. What is right for him and the next guy you meet may not be the same things. Someone will accept you for who you are. you don't get to decide who that is though.. thats up to them.

[CriminallyInsane]

Relationships are completely voluntary. There is no such thing as a wrong reason.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to cut through the confusion and help you see the relationship truth, even when it stings a bit.

He’s not “wrong” for wanting a mental connection, but he’s absolutely wrong for being cruel and condescending about it. Huge red flag. You deserve someone who finds your way of communicating adorable, not “beneath” them.

You are not doomed to be single. The right person will connect with your heart, not your vocabulary level.

[jahaims]

He isn't wrong and it's crazy you think he could be lol

[Anonymous]

There's no wrong reason to end a relationship. Nobody is entitled to other people.

[In_Trance]

No he's not wrong

[Asker]

Why?

[In_Trance]

Why would you want someone to stay around if they're not feelin it?

[Asker]

Because I feel like he’s breaking up with me because of my disability. I don’t know why he isn’t feeling it due to my disability. It’s part of who I am. Right?

[In_Trance]

Smh... Stop it

[Asker]

He even admitted that he doesn’t accept me because I communicate differently it’s not right

[In_Trance]

Omg... He told you why.
Let it go.
Find someone else