How to fix my relationship?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been arguing nonstop over little things , I try to have him understand where I’m coming from with everything but it seems to not work. How do we resolve the arguing to a minimum? I want to have us last but I’m scared that my worth isn’t much to him or is getting abused.

[Guy13]

Stop needling him to death... He doesn't want to understand everything. You are simply inciting him. Chill out and let things rest...

[Asker]

But if I do , what if he continues and make me feel less of myself? Instead of realizing some things he does hurts

[Guy13]

Well that you have to figure out together but try not to do it all at one time because it can be too much for some.

[Iron_Man]

What do you fight about? Have you met yet?

[Asker]

For example , we argued about how he made me feel like I wasn’t included when me and him went out with his mother. He always seems to make time for her or communicate really good with her but makes me feel less of a priority. We haven’t argued once about this either.

[Iron_Man]

You guys need to talk have a serious conversation come up with a compromise if that isn’t working go to professional counseling together