Is there anyway I can fix my broken relationship?

[Anonymous]

(Me and the lady are 17 aka minors) Me and my ex broke up a month ago, she said she thinks we just needed time to take a break, I didn't agree, i kept spam texting her and eventually i got arrested for harassment. I spend 2 weeks in juvie and the whole time all I could do in think of her. I just got out yesterday and I really want to talk to her but I can because of a protection order (I never did anything physical to her) i think her mom made her get it. I go to a hearing in 2 weeks if I choose to fight the protection order and Im going to. I was told by my bestfriend that she starting talking to another guy and they started dating, they only lasted 2-3 days and from what my friend told me it ended because she still is thinking of me. During the hearing if she is there I was thinking of asking the judge if I could speak to her (in front of the court not in private). I really love this young women, I have been doing a lot of thinking of what I would say to her if im granted the chance, or the chance to speak to the court. Something along the lines of "1 Month ago I made the biggest mistake of my life, I broke the trust and bond between me and this young lady. Not a day nor moment has gone by that she haven't been on my mind, I have been thinking a lot of the future and not a single scenario where she isn't there by my side." I guess im asking you people for your opinions whether im crazy and I need to force myself to move on, or if this is worth trying.

ps. I joined the army awhile back and im due to ship in 3 months, she told me didn't want to have to pack her stuff up and leave her life behind. So i was going to get out of my contract because I choose her over the military. Me and her were together almost 2 years, last year she was pregnant and when she told me i knew deep down that I wanted this lady for the rest of my life. I knew in that moment I loved her with everything. She ended up miscarring sadly i really wanted to have a family with her...

[YourFutureEx]

The sooner you realise that girls can and will leave you, the better it is for your health, life and peace of mind.

If you just leave her alone, not only you'll no longer be a threat to the society in the eyes of court, but she won't see you as a burden in her life. How will she ever feel your absence and value unless you give her a chance to live a life without you?

She wants a break, give her and pursue your life goals. As a man, you are here contribute a lot to this world's serious issues than jeopardizing your whole fucking career over a girl who ditched you for another guy.

[Asker]

I think I was starting to get co-dependent on our relationship. Still to this day I can't get her off my mind, I just can't accept that she is gone. I just started crying as i am replying to this comment.

[YourFutureEx]

It happens to the best of us. Time heals my friend. I can't really tell how long but someday it'll get better. You lost someone who gave up on you but she lost the one who wanted to try his best. It's not your fault, it's life. Like happiness, the sadness isn't permanent either.

Meanwhile, get in shape, do something you can be proud of, take care of your family, spend time with friends, have a nice meal or two & enjoy your hobbies. Having fun is the most important part. You have had fun countless of times when she wasn't in your life before so, you can do it again. And you'll meet someone better when you'll least expect it.

[Avicenna]

No, it’s time to move on

[Anonymous]

Stop trolling please because you have posted this under different genders adding more and more bs to your story. You can’t be in the military until you’re 18.

[Anonymous]

Really time to move forward.

[In_Trance]

Move on