Out of those you have been in a relationship with up to this point in your life, have you had more or less cheat on you?

[SolitarySolace]

I’ve had 3 out of 4 of the girls I’ve been with cheat on me. Led me to believe that women cheat more than men. But that’s because I’m only interested in women. Or at least I was.

More cheated on me

Less of them cheated on me

[Aerissa_Jade]

Every single man has sooner or later cheated on me, except my current man.

The next one always says they won't hurt me or cheat and yet they do.

[MTC29]

None have cheated on me, but then I am not jealous by nature.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

I've had relationships with around twelve women. One cheated on me; I cheated on one; in the other ten there was as no cheating.

Of course, about the last four were polyamorous, so the word "cheating" takes on different dimensions.

[SolitarySolace]

Yet another individual who love means nothing to 😪 There’s too many of you out there

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Love means a tremendous amount to me.

It does not mean "one rod goes in one hole"; that's an idiot's concept of love.

[SolitarySolace]

So love to you is everyone banging everyone? And they must like it? No jealousy allowed? That seems selfish to me… but doesn’t mean I have to do it. I’d rather stay single as opposed to have sex with multiple people

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Love to me is love. It means being willing to make sacrifices for other people. It means putting their needs before your own. It means taking extra time and effort every day to make sure they feel loved and safe and taken care of.

And sex is sex.

The two are independent of each other.

[EricWeston]

Not to everyone they aren't.
You also have to understand that being monogamous is a sacrifice that you make for EACH OTHER.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Not if neither of you have any interest in that particular sacrifice. My wife was perfectly clear when we met each other: she was polyamorous, she always had been, and it would never change.

And that works very well for me.

[DeadlyCreed]

Sex and love aren’t completely separate, sex in its true and not corrupt form is the strongest act of love. It’s not corrupt form being having sexafter marriage and the intention to raise kids together