He refuses to let me meet his parents, dealbreaker?

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I have been with this man for a year and I asked 2 months ago to meet his parents and he refused. He also said they have have pushing to meet me too. He said they “will interfere, they will ruin everything, I don’t have a good relationship with them.” But still he has dinners with them. He said it’s a boundary and I have to except it. He also took his ex to meet them and they were together a shorter amount of time. I said she was lucky and he said “no I’m protecting you from them.” Should this be a dealbreaker for me, I’ve struggled with it?

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Thanks peeps these were some thoughtful answers better than I got from a FB group sadly no one can tell you the right thing to do. Or Can real the other person’s true intentions I’m going to confront him again my concern is he is lying about the real reason that he is worried they won’t approve of me for racial reasons or other. And I’m that case I would leave in a heartbeat no one wants a coward who won’t stick up for them. I’ll keep you updated
He refuses to let me meet his parents, dealbreaker?
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