"I'll be always there for you" Did he friendzone me?

[miadee]

We have situationship. He knows I want relationship. When we were cuddling after sex I told him I think he's not able to be loyal... He said "I can be? You make assumptions about me. But I'll be always there for you"

WTF did he friendzoned me?

[Guy13]

Sounds like it a little but friends with benefits could mean… ☎️ or 👊 on door 🚪 and 🍆 I’m there for ya 💪

[miadee]

Yes situationship-friends with benefits kind of relationship. But he knows I want to date him and committed relationship

[Guy13]

Realities and Actuary verse Hopeful Dreaming

[miadee]

Dude wtf your problem is. Your comment doesn't answer the question. Do you know what's the purpose of this website?

[FunkyMonkee]

Really? You need to know? Sounds to me like he wants more than a casual fuck.

[miadee]

I want more he doesn't

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, then, it looks like YOU'VE got control of the ball! Let him in! Give him a chance to prove how loyal he claims he can be

[miadee]

how he can prove he can loyal he doesn't want relationship with me

[FunkyMonkee]

Did he TELL YOU that?

[miadee]

First I wanted to date. He didn't. I moved on. Then he texted and said he miss me he wants to date too. I was like ok whatever. Then we met and he told me this

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, judging from "this", it sounds to me like he wants to make it more of a dating thing than just a fucking thing.

[In_Trance]

Why would you say something like that?
You blew it.

[miadee]

I blew what? 😞

[miadee]

hello?

[miadee]

How did I blow it?

[Anonymous]

I think he is afraid you friend zoned him lol.

[miadee]

He knows I want relationship but he wasn't willing to

[Opinion Owner]

Oh well that makes sense. he wants to keep you as a friends with benefits.. If you want a relationship and he does not i dont think its good to keep having sex with him.

[miadee]

Exactly... That's why I had stopped seeing him. Then he texted me he wants to date too... Probably just to get laid. He met me again, and said this... How heartbreaking... I mean how many times you can reject a woman

[Opinion Owner]

yeah i dunno. Seems like he regrets keeping you in the friend zone. I would tell you what i would tell a man in the same situation. If you dont want to be in the friend zone, dont settle for it, move on. If they come back, tell them they should have thought of that before they friend zoned you.

[miadee]

Yes, I left and never saw him again... Finally I was done with him. I'm wondering what is the reason, how you can tell he regrets?

[Opinion Owner]

The fact that he came crawling back.

[miadee]

I wish but I don't think so... He was prob horny and told me what I want to hear

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely possible.

[miadee]

It's so confusing. I stopped seeing him, then he texted he misses me he wants to date too. Then we met again, after sex, he said this "I can be, you make assumptions about me, we're not on that stage but no worries you're on safe hands (he's doctor) I'll be always there for you" I was like wtf? He rejected me again?

[miadee]

he came back, said he wants to date too. After that we met and said "I'll be there for you" thing.

[miadee]

so what do you think as conclusion?