Generally speaking, people that had casual sex have trouble bonding and end up cheating?

[Anonymous]

I'm speaking for both genders. Would someone that had an extensive history of sleeping around have trouble bonding and end up cheating?

If a former player or sloot get into a long-term relationship or end up married, wouldn't they be cheating? After all, their capacity of bonding would be broken by then.

After course there are exceptions to every rule but wouldn't they be generally poor partners?

Yes

No

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+1 y

This might sound harsh but I wouldn't trust someone that had a past of sleeping with hookers. I would be worried of catching a disease or getting cheated on.

[VikingWarLord]

It works more in the favor of MALE players.

I've banged over 500+ and done P0RN, and even though a chic might see that as a red flag for a relationship, I still have them tryin to tame me even if they know I will most likely snag a hotter biitch. I've cheated a few times and was caught a couple times. In one of them, it worked in my favor, she ended up allowing me to cheat and still stayed faithful to ONLY ME.

She even started doing things in the sack she originally didn't do when she thought I was faithful to only her. She ended up becoming my Cuck-Quean BDSM submissive too. She knew she wasn't that hot, short, skinny, small tits (5'1 105 A cups) in her mid 30s, single mom, etc.. When she saw that I could snag hotter biitches with big tiits, she started trying to please me more even though she knew I would never settle for ONLY her.

[LazerBean]

So in short, yes.

[Asker]

You cheated therefore you just answered my question. She allowed you to cheat because it was a one-sided open relationship (therefore not a real relationship) but I doubt someone that wants a serious relationship or marriage would settle for that or even tolerate it.

[VikingWarLord]

@LazerBean Only for men.

Men have different rules than women.

Just how it is.

[LazerBean]

Lol a desperate attempt to insist that you still have value, but sure.

[Asker]

No one that wants true commitment wants a serial cheater.

[VikingWarLord]

You don't date females, I DO.
Even when I mention on dating apps. that I already have a hot play partner or BDSM Submissive, I still get tons of phone numbers and they're from females who say they are SERIOUSLY Looking for a partner. A lot of them even claim to be "religious" yet they still succumb to the "devil" like me when I jump in their inbox. I have had so many threesomes (and a few foursomes) with all females and me being the only male, that I know being a player works in my favor most of the time.

[VikingWarLord]

@LazerBean My phone full of numbers (adding to it by the week) lets me know I have value.
Look at Dan Bilzerian or Hugh Hefner. It doesn't matter how many hot women they have around them, there are still a few who want to try a real relationship with them. And even get married like that Holly Heaux did with Hugh Hefner

[Asker]

Well I don't know what's wrong with them and can't answer for them but to be honest, I feel like puking reading all that.

[VikingWarLord]

I don't know why that's a shock to you.
Kings have always had HAREMS of women (wives and concubines).
Ironically, the hotter the chic is, the more likely she is willing to play with other hot females.

[LazerBean]

Sure lol

[Asker]

It sounds like addiction.

[VikingWarLord]

oh ya i am quite adDICKting

[freewife]

You may not even know they had that history, and besides it doesn't mean they're not able to commit to you. Casual sex in itself is not a bad thing, it can be sought by people for many reasons, or situations can make them seek it out. Nothing is black and white.

[Asker]

Then there is this issue:
If they can consider sex just sex and that it means nothing, if they cheat then they can reason it with that same logic:
''Oh honey, I'm so sorry but it was just sex. It meant nothing, you're the one I love''.

[freewife]

That's true, whether they had casual sex before or not.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont think they’d have trouble bonding and I dont automatically assume they’d cheat. I just see them as kinda dirty for barely valuing their body and/or sex. If they give it up so easily, I cringe at how many times they probably had casual sex with some random and I just wouldn't wanna date that person. I doubt they even get tested before/after. Like no

[Asker]

yeah I have that same reaction too. The thing is they also have a different mindsets and stances on sex. I still wouldn't trust someone that slept around with hookers.

[DizzyDesii]

If they do casual sex, they may as well have slept with a hooker because who knows who the random at the club fcked the same day/week as them

[Anonymous]

Sex can just be sex. It doesn't have to mean anything.

[Asker]

Yes and that right there would be the issue. They can still cheat and excuse with an ''it was just sex, it meant nothing, I still love you'' line.

[MikeInHawaii]

Looking back 30-35 years later, the girls I knew who were slutty in college have about a 200% divorce rate.