Is this relationship worth saving?

[Anonymous]

So me and my girlfriend been together for 3 years. And she is an insecure person. I love her very much and I know she loves me but the problem is every time I talk about working out or when I get promoted with my job, she always gets upset saying I’m moving up in life and I’m going to leave her for someone better. And when she gets in these moods she’s very mean and nasty but then apologizes after. I tried talking to her about it and she keeps doing it. I’m tired of feeling like it’s wrong to succeed and wrong to improve myself. Is this a relationship I should try to make work? As I said I love her very much but it seems nothing I do is good enough for her.

[Finchie40]

Yes it is , Girls are very emotional people the fact that she is worried that you will leave her is actually a good thing it means she values you , her yelling and arguing with you is her frustration that she is scared to lose you so girls put up that bitch wall and treat their men like shit to protect herself from being taken advantage of, I know that sounds crazy but that’s how women are wired , Just reassure her that everything you accomplish in life is for the both of you , If her yelling and arguing is stressing you out you are best to just walk away and like you said eventually she will come apologize , it’s when she doesn’t apologize is when you reconsider that relationship lol

[caposdoll]

To be honest I think you should ask her for a break and not break up with her. That will scare her enough and she will understand that she needs to stop this behavior. Let her know that you want her to want to succeed instead of being selfish when you do ask for that little break.

[LazerBean]

She should have been dumped as soon as you knew she was consistently a jealous person. You cannot be in a healthy relationship with someone who sees you as competition or an adversary.

[Asker]

You know it’s kinda weird because I know you’re right but at the same time I do love her. It’s very hard for me.

[LazerBean]

Ah yeah, that's the tough part. No judgyor anything, that sort of stuff just happens. Not getting attached before you are sure about a person is something that you have to be determined to do as you are getting to know them. Keeping that in the forefront of your mind with future women might help. Good luck

[NotTacocaT6969]

The fact that you had to ask this question means the answer is no.