How do you know if someone's in love with you?

[Anonymous]

I recently had someone tell me they loved me but weren't in love with me and think they never have been in love with me. It really hurt at the time, especially because that wasn't the feeling I got from their actions. As much as I want to believe they were in love with me at some point, I have to just take what they're saying now and hope they're being honest about it. I'm thinking I just don't know what it means to be in love with someone or see someone in love with me.

I mean, I want to see them happy and be with them when things are good and even when things are bad. Being around them feels like a warm blanket and I want to share my life with them and have them in my life.

[dustybiker]

When someone is in love with you it’s very much a gooey feeling. They lean into you a lot. Wanting to touch you.

Mind you this is different from simple obsession, as it lacks motive, it’s more natural.

If you don’t love them back it can feel smothering. Unrequited love is brutal too.

[LilyFlorisa]

If a girl said, she is in love with you, bro this is her real feeling. u may feel like not being loved because girls like honesty and she wanna know that u really like her. She will do may be some distance or not talking for days as she wanna know that u care for her.

[Iron_Man]

They will tell you and you can tell by the look in their eyes and by the voice tone. But if it’s on the Internet you can read their words the way they say it and what emojis they put sometimes. They put that to. But it also depends how long you’ve known the girl

[Guy13]

Trust can be horribly difficult sometimes. Are you speaking to a one-one live relationship or an internet or LDR. Each have their own challenges. Which one please?

[Asker]

It's been LDR for a bit, since COVID has been a problem until recently for plans of meeting up. I don't think there's anything crazy going on, I think it's just been difficult dealing with the physical distance.

[Guy13]

It is difficult for everyone globally as man is not intelligently designed to be housed in a cage. So you were long distance before COVID, COVID complicated it, and it is now just starting up Normal but still doesn't feel like it did Pre-Covid? that about right... expound...

[Anonymous]

You have to feel it. Words alone won't do it.

[Anonymous]

You don't.