Have you ever been in open relationships?

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Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Not stated explicitly but implied enough that she acted on it with my encouragement. I lived with a girl here in CA that I met in college in Ohio. We both were on the internet frequently, and she had cybersex with men on a semi regular basis, and the both of us with a couple from Canada. She masturbated with the husband, and I with the wife. She talked about wanting to try a Double Penetration with me and another, and we had a second guy in mind, (if she found that his penis was not too thick for her asshole) That never materialized, although we regretted it did not happen.

At one point a guy in her hometown, in Ohio sent her a picture of his rather long, erect, penis and she was immediately interested. I suggested that she meet him, I was here in CA and she in Ohio at that time. I told her she should meet and jack him off or whatever she wanted to do with him. After some weeks of planning, she did meet him in her city, drove to a back road, and she jacked him off, wiped up the mess and, much to my chagrin did not take pictures or suck him off.

She said afterward that she thought about: "... kissing it on the head, but I didn't think you would like it" . I told her she should have.

A week later they talked, and he went to her house, but wanted to: "see my ass, beforehand" she showed him but he had no condom, and she said he: "... only wanted me to lay on the bed and spread my legs, with no foreplay, and I did not want that"

That is as close to an open relationship I have ever been in and I would not have thought twice about him fucking her, and she asked me if I would " . be alright with that"

JamesDiaz11 · Accepted Answer

No, and I never would. I've dated/ hooked up regularly with women, who were also having sex with other people (I travel for work, and had a girl or two in each city, which I would visit every couple months; so, it'd make sense for them not to wait for me).

While I wouldn't mind the idea of having sex with other people while having a girlfriend, I wouldn't be okay with her being okay with it- even less so her sleeping with other people.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

In college I had a boyfriend that wanted me to sleep with other guys. We started off with threesomes and couples foursomes and then he would watch me with other guys. I thought it was such an odd request at first but it was a fetish he wasn't letting go of lol. He had done it with another girl he dated before me. He eventually talked me into a threesome and later talked me into just having sex with other guys while he watched. It was still weird at first but eventually I got into it. We ended up having a pretty fun and wild time. He's married now and I kind of wonder if he talked his wife into that lifestyle too.

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

Nope, I have never been in one nor would I ever give it a go. I have nothing against those who want an open relationship, but it is simply not feasible for me since I prefer monogamy and cannot tolerate my partner sleeping with other women when he is with me.

I would break up with my partner if he wanted to try it because we would want two very different things then.

Paige90 · Answer

Yes! In fact, I am now. It's not for everyone but it works for us.

Dennisnky · Answer

Not exactly. I mean I've kept seeing an ex after it ended, and knew they were talking to someone else. But I wouldn't call it an open relationship. It was more like just having fun until one of us was ready to get serious with someone new.

weysally · Answer

yes many, many times, since I was 35, now 50 and still have an open

Juxtapose · Answer

No and frankly when I find a woman I'm going to want her all to myself. I've been single for far too long to share.

I would be willing if I was involved every time and if it's another man then he must be subservient to me and do gay things to me to prove his subservience. I'm not going to have some fucking meathead try to outdo me, I'm going to avoid that fistfight.

Andres77 · Answer

Sorta…for a limited time and ending the arrangement was a mutual decision. We never went back.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No, I never have been in an open relationship.

Finchie40 · Answer

No but I am about to be because I am tired of how girls treat their men Most girls are very selfish people

stargazeraug1989 · Answer

No, but I'd like to give that amongst a few other things a try.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope... never tried something like that before is just not my thing

Hanrej · Answer

We tried it for a while then it became semi-open.

msc545 · Answer

no these work well for women, not well for men

AsaKyo · Answer

I don't think people accept ugly people into their polyamorous charades

Anonymous · Answer

no thank god. open relationships only work when the male is not an alpha, and is ok with being a cuck. Open relationships = failed relationships.

es20490446e · Answer

It's already enough work getting with a single person, let alone more than that.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. MMF It worked well for the unique situation we were in to begin with.

NikkiS97 · Answer

@nikki1989 I haven't but I think it would be kind of hot. My roommate has cause we have talked about it💋

Agape93 · Answer

All but one have been open.

Jennz6 · Answer

Yes I have been

musicbrain5 · Answer

No, I’m not interested in that.

Southcoastradwolf · Answer

Yes. I’m in one currently with my wife and girlfriend. Who my wife and I both share.

bubblegunnn · Answer

Never and would never

SnowedIn · Answer

Have not and don't think I would.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

No, but I want to give it a go.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, that has no appeal to me.

LavLavLuv · Answer

def ain't my thing

DermalPunch · Answer

Not to my knowledge, no.

Monika95 · Answer

No, not my thing.

Beerluvr · Answer

No. Not sure I could.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Nope and wouldn’t.

eagle1951 · Answer

no, and never would be

Kelly6 · Answer

I’m in open relationship and I love it.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Not that I know of.

Havthrills · Answer

Nope. Not sure if I want to try. Lol

clampfan101 · Answer

Never. I wouldn’t even call that a relationship.

Waldoe · Answer

I was once, but she didn't know... hahaha

Zolly99999 · Answer

Nope... I don't think I would either. m

MrTaboo · Answer

Kind of. Wife plays too when ever I bring one home

krin_m · Answer

Nope. I'm poly but that is different.

BLP11520 · Answer

No, my wife would kill me

pink-jilly · Answer

nope

motownplayer2000 · Answer

No. Have you?

Anonymous · Answer

yes its great

StephieSunshine · Answer

No, but I don't judge

In_Trance · Answer

never have

Xtendable · Answer

Yes…I have…am

QuietRunner · Answer

yes I have

soe11 · Answer

Yes indeed

CubaPirate · Answer

Noooooooo

Anonymous · Answer

no..

Anonymous · Answer

No not yet.

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