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Should I forgive my fiancé for cheating if he did it while he was away from me in a long distance relationship? (Page 2)
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No! There is no good trash for cheating. If you forgive him, he’ll just do it again. Nobody changes their behavior for lack of consequences. Especially people who are clearly selfish and inconsiderate, like all cheaters are.
Forgiveness is man’s job. Vengeance is of the Lord.
Tough situation for you.
I know we are not perfect. I can not do anything about what others do. I look at the lessons for me personally and I know that I’m at least 50% blame. At the end of the day it’s a personal decision and at some point I have had to say enough and walk away from friendship 🤷🏻♂️
What did you decide? don't mean to pry in your Business. MYOB will not offend me ...
Absolutely not. That's no excuse. A cheater is not someone you should be marrying.
Boggles my mind how some people find such losers to be with. Yes he's a loser. Forgive him? Seriously? Lol uh no.
No you really shouldn’t. I understand that you love him but it seems like he will do it again and you’ll always feel paranoid. Did he confess to cheating?
Yes, he came and confessed to me
He said he did it because of loneliness
I feel like he did the right thing for confessing but if he doesn’t move back to your country just dump him. Because if you’re still ldr, how do you know he still doesn’t contact that chick
If you're an idiot, sure. Women get the most obviosu signs and then cry about their bad relationship ten years later
End the engagement and break up. If you excuse that behaviour then he’ll learn that it’s okay and do it again.
Look he probably got h0rny and I know you didn't cheat but he did. I would say how many times did he do it and how did you find out
Why are you people so afraid of being alone that you tolerate this level of shit?
Do you even have self respect?
I'm gonna have to say forgive him but don't stay with him because you don't deserve that shit, because when they say that usually when someone cheats they will do it again.
Hahahahahahah. He got caught cheating and he isn't even with you physically. Girl, he's trying to get out the marriage.
Or, setting a precedent.
Honestly it’s up to you. You have a right to leave him even if it was a long time ago. If you think you still want to be with him, though, you don’t have to leave him.
This is tough and sometimes you need to be in this situation in order to properly make a decision on everything. I was in the exact same situation as you. Feel free to DM me about this. I may be of help to you x
I cannot DM you so maybe try DM me if you have time and want to talk about this x
I will say you are fortunate that you are not married so you dont need to think about divorce... What you decide to do is ultimately up to you. The people below have probably never been in a long distance relationship for 3 years or more. Me and you both have. I have been in a long distance relationship for the past 3 years nearly 4 and It is really difficult and gruelling especially considering me and my husband are extroverts who like to go out a lot i have seen my husband 3 times in 4 years. How is that even a marriage. I dont know what my husband is doing right now but when he comes and lives with me our marriage will start then. It is totally up to you to make a decision. It really depends on his reaction and what he was like in your relationship before he did this to you. You will make the best decision for you my friend xxx
probably not eh? obvs wasn't confident in the distance relationship
No. Cheating is unforgivable. There is no valid excuse.
No fucking way
The distance doesn't matter, what matters is his head which permits him to fuck other women-thats the problem
I know my nf gets hard on only on me
He doesn't feel desire to fuck others
Thats the point
Girl, your man may be loyal but he absolutely want to sleep with other women. Be grateful but don't be delusional.
@DermalPunch im not delusional
No. If it was a relationship, it was a relationship. Just because it's long distance doesn't give him the right the cheat!!
I wouldn't just imagine if you were married and he cheated on you.
Yes you are right.. thank you
no because he would do it if you lived next door as well... He is a cheater... Leave him and find a good guy that won't cheat...
No.
Cheating is a conscious decision / choice that people make, and is unforgivable IMHO.