What do you think about polyamory?

my_name_is__

Xper 4 Age: 22

Could you picture yourself in a polyamorous relationship?

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ZXCwWRQWz Follow
Xper 6 Age: 104 , mho 56%

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Don't have the energy. I'm not talking about sex. That's the easiest type of energy. I'm talking about everything outside the bedroom. Right now if I wasn't just chilling, I could take my wife out to a romantic dinner. I could be an even better husband. But I don't wanna cuz I'm tired. Imagine doubling that responsibility; you'll halve my ability to be a good husband and I'm not overflowing in my good husbandness. I think I'm pretty good but only because I only have one wife.

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exitseven Follow
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I cannot imagine doing this. Somebody would end up getting hurt eventually.

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Apple1996 Follow
InfluencerMaster Age: 29

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If I could handle 10 husband's I'd probably get them but I'm just too loyal to one person for that

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- Guardian45
  
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  Oh Apple, he's SO LUCKY!😳😂😍
  
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- Apple1996
  
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  @Guardian45 lol yeah I wouldn't do it just cuz of him
  
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- Guardian45
  
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  May you always be happy!
  
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letuswaltzforthedead Follow
Yoda Age: 21 , mho 57%

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If other people want to do it, I dont care and more power to them. It's a weird and antiquated lifestyle in my opinion.
Whether or not I would do it, I'm not sure but I'm leaning towards no. If I'm dating multiple guys, I'm assuming you would need Surrogacy and IVF so everyone has a child. If im dating a guy AND a girl then it wouldn't really be so much a relationship than a friends with benefits that coparent and adds more children or resources to the mix.
Not sure.

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- Guardian45
  
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  Why is it weird and antiquated?
  
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- letuswaltzforthedead
  
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  @Guardian45 polygamy was more practiced in the past, monogamy seems to be a more recent development (which explains why humans are so bad at it when the social stigma is removed. That social stigma makes something "norm"al). Polygamy, if you want to live in society/group, would lead said group to have more intergroup conflict and lower trust in eachother. Most guys would be single and those who weren't would have to worry about having their girl stolen by the top guys regardless of how many wives the top guys has. Society in general would be more violent (china is a good example). It's a old idea that would be best left in the past.
  
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avaisfree Follow
Xper 4 Age: 21 , mho 57%

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My dad and his fiancee are polyamorous. They seem pretty stable and happy. I could see myself doing the same if I was in love with multiple people and those people were okay with it.

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- Guardian45
  
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  How long have they been like that?
  
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- avaisfree
  
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  @Guardian45 It was an open relationship from the beginning and they've been steady with a third person for a few months now.
  
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- Guardian45
  
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  Nice to hear that it's working for them. Is one of them bisexual?
  
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- avaisfree
  
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  @Guardian45 No, their third is a guy. Him and my dad are really close but they don't have sex with each other, just with her.
  
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- Guardian45
  
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  Have they tried or considered a woman as their third?
  
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- avaisfree
  
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  @Guardian45 I don't think so. My dad likes watching his fiancee make love to men.
  
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Billlewis Follow
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My ideal poly arrangement is one in which she enjoys the freedom to date other guys whenever she wants, while I remain 100% faithful and exclusive to her at all times.

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Master Age: 38 , mho 34%

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I'm against it. Relationships should be exclusive.

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D_Bone_Steak Follow
Master Age: 43 , mho 44%

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You're either so desperate you'll share just to get some or...

You're so not interested in anything else than scratching the itch.

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Tomsta Follow
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I'd be open to trying it, provided ground rules were setup

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EmmaMary Follow
Master Age: 32 , mho 36%

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Absolutely no way, just the sheer thought of it makes me feel extremely cold.

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- Guardian45
  
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  Why?
  
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_Just_A_girl_ Follow
Yoda Age: 32

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Over with in a flash , never prosperous it would appear

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- Guardian45
  
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  Why?
  
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TroyDT2 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 30

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Not for me. What others do is not my business.

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Anonymous
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I think people who practice it are fools and degenerates.

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- my_name_is__
  
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  Okay. Why do you think that?
  
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Snedger____ Follow
Xper 7 Age: 30

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Not while in a serious relationship. If it's just casual, I might try

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Anonymous
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People are already polyamorous. Especially divorced women who got kids from the alpha and remarried a beta.

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Tyrael Follow
Guru Age: 37 , mho 46%

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No. That's not for me

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Guardian45 Follow
Guru Age: 51

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Yes, I believe I could given the right people.

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Shamalien Follow
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I think it’s fucked

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In_Trance Follow
Master Age: 27

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it's not for everyone

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Mediterraneansoul Follow
Xper 6 Age: 38

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I never thought about it, I'm a human not a pig 😆

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Guy13 Follow
Master Age: 31 , mho 55%

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I could not.

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Blackcupcake Follow
Guru Age: 24

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never

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- Guardian45
  
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  Why not?
  
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MiseriaCantareAFI Follow
Xper 6 Age: 36

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its wrong

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TonightYouu Follow
Xper 5 Age: 26

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Dats nasty

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- Guardian45
  
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  Why?
  
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NatalieIshereO Follow
Xper 4 Age: 28

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It's perverted

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- Guardian45
  
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  Why?
  
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