My now newly added cousin of 7 or 8yrs old apparently has that awkward crush thing for me I found out by her sister. Anyway been dreading this situation ever coming up through the holidays. Then there's been plenty of times I had to decline or avoid attention towards known crushes. All could've been better handled upfront.
I would have to tell them the truth that I didn't feel the same. Although it may hurt them, I couldn't lead someone down the garden path and pretend I had strong feelings for them.
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My now newly added cousin of 7 or 8yrs old apparently has that awkward crush thing for me I found out by her sister. Anyway been dreading this situation ever coming up through the holidays. Then there's been plenty of times I had to decline or avoid attention towards known crushes. All could've been better handled upfront.
The last time that happened I just said "cool". It was awkward.
"Thank you. I hope that's a brotherly/sisterly kind of love."
Not had it happen yet so not sure how I'd respond.
I love you.
I would say that I lie them but maybe not the way i was supposed to. One time i told this girl I loved her, she said i was crazy.
I will say " ok , but i don't ! "
Of course it hurts, but it will be fast and once , its better than going around for days, and make the people hanging for while!!
I'll say "thank you" or "I know"
I guess I would just tell them that I don't think of them in that way.
I would have to tell them the truth that I didn't feel the same. Although it may hurt them, I couldn't lead someone down the garden path and pretend I had strong feelings for them.
Set them up on a date with a police to serve then a restraining order 😒
I'd tell them I'm flattered but I just don't like them in that way
My standard response is: ''Me, too''
I haven't gotten slapped for it until now :)
Kind of like the meme. Lol. Or "thank you," "aww that's sweet"
I'd probably be flattered, but tell them I don't like them that way
there is only one way to respond that is with the truth always be honest and sincere.
I don’t know how to respond or what to say to something that I rarely ever hear from a girl lol
I don't know, it's very difficult for me. I don't want to upset her, but if I don't like her, there's nothing me can do
"I know."
Hey, it worked for Han Solo.
My guy friend liked me and I told them “I’m sorry I don’t.”
I would tell them the truth. I would never go with it cause that would cause way more pain to them.