How to do my things first and stop prioritising my girlfriend all the time?

[Anonymous]

She's my neighbour. Ldr temperorly. We meet once in two months. Even if I'm at some urgent work, I find time to chat with her. I've cancelled plans with friends/families and have postponed my office work several times just to talk/chat with her.

But she, prioritise herself and her responsibilities before me. Not always, but mostly.

So when she takes time to reply or when she forget to ask me for hours (Like if I've reached back home or something like that..), I become sad.

How to change this and do my things first?

[Guy13]

With discipline. You are so right. The only person you can change and ultimately help is yourself. And what people, especially boyfriend miss, IF the girl sees you growing into a man with Accomplishments she gets hot. A conquering man that lead with actions is desired. Anyone can run game. A secondary effect is garnering her respect and love. Make sense ⁉️

[Asker]

Yes got it. Thanks buddy.

[Guy13]

👍👍

[boggboss]

By living your own life mate

[sheenagwapa]

if yoy have a job focus on your job because if i just have a fucking job i will even forget i have a boyfriend because my tendency is to get so focus on what i'm doinh but that doesn't mean also i couldn't find time for my SO because i will then be afraid that my SO will leave me because i don't hqve time for him

[Asker]

Okayy thanks buddy