Should a man treat his woman like a queen (lots of love, affection and respect)?

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Just curious on opinions. I had someone say the other day women shouldn’t expect to be be treated like queens but I don't know why wouldn’t you want to treat your girl well? She would just treat you like a king lol.

PetiteBabe64 · Accepted Answer

It’s Ridiculous that you gotta even ask that.
You want a man to Treat you like that Your jealous when you see it happening. The question isn’t about Should a man treat a female like a queeen it’s about should a man treat YOU like a queen.
And the answer is NO your not a queen.
And you never will be your not special your life doesn’t hold Higher value than others except in Some Cases. like a homeless 14 year old boys life means more than yours or a Scared dog 🐕 that Sleeps in a Abandoned farm and eats what it cans runs off into the woods when it Is scared that dog life means more than yours and that dog should be Treated like a Queen or king because The dog has had a painful life and deserves to be happy
And Doesn’t know anything but pain and survival and knows it needs help but Is scared and doesn’t know how to ask for or get help after all it’s been abused by humans there for in dogs mind every person is bad and untrustworthy.
You on the other hand are a Creature that knows right from wrong and when you Fuck up you blame someone else you don’t take responsibility when you know your responsible and you look for Ways to not be to blame there for You don’t deserve to be treated like a Queen or king.
You deserve to Grow up and Quit being a child.
You dad made you Your mom Houses you till you were born Not every man is your dad And no man needs to Act like a dad to you.
You Girls miss daddy and his special treatment so you go out and look for a man that will treat you like a daughter and when he doesn’t You get mad and say all men are bad.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

I personally don't like those terms, king and queen. Never use 'em. I don't like hierarchical structures. I'm egalitarian. (With an extra emphasis on compassion for all.)

The word "queen" has become a trigger word to many now, because the world has tipped and females are no longer disadvantaged in terms of options and influence as much as in history. Sometimes they even have advantages. So you can't use this word without equalizing it out with the male equivalent. Feminist females have now chastized men into not caring for them, so men are going the opposite direction and no longer want to help them; especially not en masse.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I met my wife through a pre-internet dating service. They had ring binders with hundreds of profile. The company took several photos of you in a professional photo shoot, so there was no cheating on the images. You picked one to go in your profile. Along with that was your written profile.
On the part of the profile where you talk about what kind of woman you are looking for, one thing I said was something about "I'm looking for my queen."
At that point in my life, I was looking to find a life partner and settle down.

Anyway, my future wife apparently loved that line. She has mentioned it several times when telling people the story of how we met.

I see it as a poetic word that doesn't have to be taken literally. It is reminiscent of stories of gallantry, romance and heroism. It simply means that you you will treat her with dignity and respect. You will love, honor, cherish and protect her. In return, she will give herself to you, body and soul. She will be your loyal right hand through thick and thin. You will face life together.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

It's not a one way street. Both people should treat each other like the most important person in their life. But if one of them stops doing that (either one), they should not expect the other to keep doing so.

I prefer to think of relationships as a TEAM. If you want to win, you have to work together, and use each other's strengths, because no one can win a team sport on their own. You both prioritize the team and are loyal to the team and defend and support the team publicly.

This metaphor fits better in my opinion, and is less likely to lead to entitled behavior than the royalty metaphor.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

These are the coffee cups I bought for my girlfriend and me when she moved in with me. I told her I would treat her like a Queen but I expected her to treat me like as king.

DaveJord · Answer

I completely agree... But like you said I want to be treated like King, and I totally treat my girlfriends like Queens. But its two way street if start to feel like she is not into as much, or giving as much as she is receiving then I loose interest.

Guy13 · Answer

Of course he should. I woukd too if I loved her…everyone woukd.

caring__1 · Answer

If you treat it as an entitlement, he'll stop giving. Never expect more of a partner than you are already bringing to the relationship. Balance is important in all aspects of life. Imbalance will never lead to positive results.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Should we treat each other like majesty? Absolutely.

Qdbrown · Answer

Hell no! Don't ever treat a non-royal like a royal. She does deserve it, and she should strive to keep your respect. You give that up, and she will walk all over you and cheat on you. Don't waste your time.

And don't do that happy wife happy life crap. Maintain that she puts in as much as you, as best she can. You sense and see bad attitude from her to you, leave her. I am not joking. Many women often change their whole tune when you impose boundaries, and stick to them. Especially after you kick them to the curb.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

That is what my mother taught me, and she was wrong. Apparently it’s impossible to conceive of women being anything but beings of pure light and love. I can assure you that treating a woman like royalty absolutely does not guarantee they will return the effort. In fact, few will even attempt to do so. The only woman in my entire lifetime who treated me like royalty was my father’s mother. It was difficult for me to reconcile because it was SO different from how every other girl and woman ever treated me. My own mother wasn’t as kind to me on my birthday as my paternal grandmother was on any given day. I worship that woman to this day, and i would do the same for any other woman who would treat me so well.

Anonymous · Answer

My husband definitely does. I'm a cute, petite blonde girl with tits and an ass the size of watermelons, and my husband is a 7 foot tall negro with a foot long BBC. His skin is like creamy dark chocolate, and I just love putting it in my tiny mouth. Every night, he bangs his monster cock inside my little white pussy. Unfortunately, his cock is so incredibly large that it breaks condoms. Because of this, we have 12 beautiful mixed daughters together, and they're all light-skinned. Our daughters are also very supportive of our open relationship as we get bored of fucking the same person all the time.

USLegionary · Answer

The should expect this sort of treatment provided they deserve it. Many women these days expect to be treated like a queen but don't deserve to be.

Summeroflove · Answer

YES!!! And a woman should treat her man like a king. Yeah. A relationship should go both ways.

There are some unattractive girls though who have high expectations. But can’t meet any of the same requirements and wants a guy to do all this stuff and give nothing in return. There are guys who display similar behaviors. Always the kind of people nobody wants. But. I digress.

Yeah. You should treat your partner well. If both did this. Then that’s how relationships work.

I heard a saying I might butcher. But somewhere in the ballpark… If both give 110 percent and only expect 25 percent back. That’s the key

D-Pad_Chad · Answer

No he shouldn't. Because most women these days don't reciprocate that attitude, in fact they see a man willing to be traditional without expectations for her as an easy mark to take advantage of, not a life partner.

Men have learned the game, many of us have cashed out and the men left will be those you can't get or don't want.

This means men are more careful and any women wanting to be taken care of better prove they're as traditional as he is, and sadly they usually just take offense to the thought of things like cooking and cleaning.

Hopefully this gives a bit of insight into the yes/no and why.

BullShark · Answer

Only if the feelings are mutual and she too treats hum like a king, showering him with love, respect and emotion.

He could make the first attempt but after a while, if she doesn't reciprocate his feelings and all she's doing is leech off of him for validation, then she's a toxic person to be around and he's a sad and lonely simp whose world, quite literally IS her and only her.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends but If you are married with kids and she is taking care of the kids daily feeding taking to school etc then you have to treat her her as a queen even though she might give some attitude because I see some bald men here saying I need to be treated as a king too like it’s a competition. Well I get it maybe culture you are raised matters too.
As a men you should know if you
want your kids to grow up healthy and happy with love from the mother you have to
treat your wife like a queen. Yes you have too.
And if you do then she will treat you like a king too.
In a way yes you
Will get treated as a king but your wife needs it more often then you do IF there is kids around..
I have witness close cousins that mothers treated them when they were kids so poorly because their father treated the mother like shit. Even
to this days my cousin goes to therapies so often.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

You treat people how you want to be treated. If they don't treat you the same or better, you may want to consider finding someone who treats you just as well as you treat them.
But you also shouldn't expect your man to dote on you if you're not dotting on him.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Only reward good behavior. If she's acting dumb and out of line, then you simp out to her anyways, you'll be reinforcing that dumb and out of line behavior.

The thing is, as evidenced by some of the women on this site in fact, a woman that's so spoiled by favoritism no matter what probably won't accept any sort of criticism or be grateful for anything at all. Her lizard brain will know she can get what she wants and it simply doesn't matter.

VanguardTitan · Answer

A guy should but he should be doing it because he wants to do it, not because society tells him to.
Essentially it doesn't mean anything if it's not from the heart. Everyone shows love in different ways, so if he does something and it's from the heart, that's him really treating her like a queen.
A homecooked meal for her birthday could mean much more than a fancy dinner in a restaurant to prove to others what he does.

Beardedman1996 · Answer

Do I think it’s great when we do yes, do I think there’s supposed to be a set balance in a relationship and if it’s too offset then they don’t deserve shit also yes, hard to swallow pill here: not every woman deserves the world, not every man deserves the world, sometimes we fall in love with people in the moment and those rosey blinders really make it difficult to see that sometimes the people we Fall in love with are shit, not worth shit, toxic and never changing and once some women get into relationship where it’s not enough to simply smile and let us touch the booty, we all put in work here times are tough and none of us can afford to be slacking to hard on one side

JulianGronkowski · Answer

I would love to treat a woman like a queen, if she didn’t treat me like a peasant as a result. Whenever I tried to treat a woman I liked really well, maybe try to make her day by complimenting her outfit or something like that, I got treated like dirt. So now I just treat women like I treat any other guy, no special treatment. As everyone knows by now, if you’re an attractive guy you can treat women like a queen and she’ll love it. But if she doesn’t find you attractive, it’s creepy. I know where I stand now,

Anonymous · Answer

I think so. And she should treat him like he's her king.

My boyfriend treats me like a queen, which I adore! I am however not an overly cuddly person, and I hate PDA... but he respects that, and knows that I need space. :) I do cuddle with him tho.

Beatrix7 · Answer

of course he should if i receved it i would deffinetly return it it takes 2 to tango fair is fair get on good av onky ever had nice boyfriend who are nice in the begining then i gain there trust and they fuck me over THATS WHEN I FINALLY FOUND OUT AM ALERGIC TO DIPSHITS LOL

RagnarRedbeard · Answer

If she treats him like a king, yes.

The idea that she automatically would is naive though, in the same way that a woman who thinks that treating a man like a king would mean that he'd automatically treat her like a queen.

There are plenty of narcissistic, entitled people who expect a lot without feeling like they should be expected to reciprocate.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Don't like that saying so... because realistically if I was the King and their the Queen I can just behead them like King Henry. The king tends to have more power to do what he wants with the queen.
Not a supporter of Monarchy so the saying to me is overall just a bad metaphor.
It's the same when people say I want to find my Joker or Harley Quinn... they are quite literally definition of an abusive unhealthy relationship so using them in this example is dumb as hell.

fbk94 · Answer

So If we act like that, we will be abandoned immediately, so we have to act more like cruelty. In the meantime, I would appreciate it if you could comment on my question.  #Reigner

genericname85 · Answer

only "if" that woman is ready to treat him like a king. but women these days are way more concerned with "being treated right" than with "treating others right".

sakuranaruto · Answer

Kings and Queens can be dethrone. There needs to be love, empathy, respect and understanding between you and your significant other, in a relationship. This is what I think.

HighValue · Answer

The way I treat someone is based on how they treat me and what kind of person they are. Some people are trash and deserve to be treated as such. Some people are good and deserve to be treated well.

dragoblack · Answer

Yes and no. Usually those kind of relationships are one sided with the woman taking full advantage and not really caring about the guy when he needs emotional support, and she doesn't return the favor with the same amount of affection and effort.
A relationship should be like best friends with romantic benefits, both being there for each other and supporting of each other with trust and respect.

ohsheeT · Answer

Why would you want to be with anybody that didn't treat you like a queen

Bethany22 · Answer

Them treating each other equally nicely is probably only in an idealistic situation. Doesn't happen much in real life. One generally has more power than the other one, and that is what determines who is the nicest.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Not necessarily "as a queen" but at least give lots of love, affection and respect.

Shayyyy1 · Answer

obviously respect is a 2 way thing. if he treats me like shit only fair i return the favour. not saying kiss the floor i want on but being respectful is the bare minimum

abc3643 · Answer

I hate this advice that I was given over 30 years ago, but I have come to learn via The School of Hard Knocks that it is true: "Treat whores like queens and queens like whores."

Miristheiss · Answer

I would deem that kindness or warmth. Sure... if she is worth it. Queen. That sounds like putting her on a pedestal which I would advise against.

SomeJokeTeeth · Answer

Not unless she deserves to be treated that way, I certainly wouldn't expect to be treated like a king if all I did was dirty the house and cause drama... for example

FilmGuy93 · Answer

People just find the term “queen” super cringe. I got into trouble for using those terms on Reddit awhile back. Everyone bit my head off because of my phrasing.

Pot8o · Answer

She'll treat you better if you treat her like shit.

Voldra · Answer

I would but I'd also pay attention to if that was reciprocated & if it wasn't after communicating that I'd walk away.

Anonymous · Answer

I've noticed men say women are always right. Well most those women become the most nastiest rudest immoral women on earth. It goes to their heads. Yes its a two way street, but women now a days, are evil.. Look at social media, you tube. They are nutty..

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

Only if you treat him like a king. Don't expect him to treat you like a queen if you don't look at him the same way.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Yes he should, as much as he can. The women need to respond and give back. His endeavor is to love her.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

That's how you should treat eachother. Pretty standard things in a relationship. Goes both ways

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Just because you treat your spouse as a king/queen does not mean they will do the same for you.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Only when she deserves it. Not just because she’s a woman. She wouldn’t do the same just because he’s a man. Especially these days

peedy · Answer

Yes and she should treat him as a king with love honor and respect  Always remember love/relationships are a 2 way street

Finchie40 · Answer

You can’t treat a girl like a Queen when she treats you like a joker , it has to go both ways

BJP21 · Answer

100% but that also needs to be reciprocated. Otherwise it becomes one sided.

carlgpfeifer · Answer

Yes I agree a man should treat his girl like queen always love her with open arms keep her warm at night wake up fix her breakfast in the morning fix lunch in afternoon fix dinner in eveiñg I will love her night and day

Manuel2 · Answer

Yes but she must treat him like a King Clean his dirty clothes Clean house and dishes Do his sexual desires Never say no and always with a smile on her face

Anonymous · Answer

That's not how it works, though. If you treat someone like they're above you, they'll treat you like you're below them. The whole concept of both people treating each other like royalty goes against human nature.

420Rachel · Answer

You treat me right and I'll treat you right. It takes two to tango. 💃

dustybiker · Answer

No. Gag. As in really gag. I love a genuine man not an actor.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Nope, he should treat her as a equal, not as a superior ruler over him.

Charlesbrandonf · Answer

I’m not capable of that. I think it’s not true. I might be wrong. But for me I don’t see myself like that.

Shy_Steve · Answer

It depends, She might not like that much Affection or She isn't use to it so he just has to treat her respectfully, So it really depends on the Girl.

Kinkyhubby · Answer

It isn't necessary to be given these titles to either one. It should be all neutral love and respect. You work as a team. One should complete the other.

RavVid · Answer

If reciprocated... yes but it can turn into entitlement which is a no.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

Yes he should because my last boyfriend was always super sweet and gentleman like

shade_19 · Answer

I was gonna ask the same question as a guy since I've heard and seen so many times where woman leaves a guy coz he's a nice guy and treats her good

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

I don't like the word queen or king it's kinda cringe lol but yeah I would totally spoil my girl that's what relationships are for

Havthrills · Answer

Yes! Women are great. She would be my queen. Yet, if nothing is returned, then no. I don't want to waste my life.

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