Just curious on opinions. I had someone say the other day women shouldn’t expect to be be treated like queens but I don't know why wouldn’t you want to treat your girl well? She would just treat you like a king lol.
It’s Ridiculous that you gotta even ask that.
You want a man to Treat you like that Your jealous when you see it happening. The question isn’t about Should a man treat a female like a queeen it’s about should a man treat YOU like a queen.
And the answer is NO your not a queen.
And you never will be your not special your life doesn’t hold Higher value than others except in Some Cases. like a homeless 14 year old boys life means more than yours or a Scared dog 🐕 that Sleeps in a Abandoned farm and eats what it cans runs off into the woods when it Is scared that dog life means more than yours and that dog should be Treated like a Queen or king because The dog has had a painful life and deserves to be happy
And Doesn’t know anything but pain and survival and knows it needs help but Is scared and doesn’t know how to ask for or get help after all it’s been abused by humans there for in dogs mind every person is bad and untrustworthy.
You on the other hand are a Creature that knows right from wrong and when you Fuck up you blame someone else you don’t take responsibility when you know your responsible and you look for Ways to not be to blame there for You don’t deserve to be treated like a Queen or king.
You deserve to Grow up and Quit being a child.
You dad made you Your mom Houses you till you were born Not every man is your dad And no man needs to Act like a dad to you.
You Girls miss daddy and his special treatment so you go out and look for a man that will treat you like a daughter and when he doesn’t You get mad and say all men are bad.
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I personally don't like those terms, king and queen. Never use 'em. I don't like hierarchical structures. I'm egalitarian. (With an extra emphasis on compassion for all.)
The word "queen" has become a trigger word to many now, because the world has tipped and females are no longer disadvantaged in terms of options and influence as much as in history. Sometimes they even have advantages. So you can't use this word without equalizing it out with the male equivalent. Feminist females have now chastized men into not caring for them, so men are going the opposite direction and no longer want to help them; especially not en masse.
I met my wife through a pre-internet dating service. They had ring binders with hundreds of profile. The company took several photos of you in a professional photo shoot, so there was no cheating on the images. You picked one to go in your profile. Along with that was your written profile.
On the part of the profile where you talk about what kind of woman you are looking for, one thing I said was something about "I'm looking for my queen."
At that point in my life, I was looking to find a life partner and settle down.
Anyway, my future wife apparently loved that line. She has mentioned it several times when telling people the story of how we met.
I see it as a poetic word that doesn't have to be taken literally. It is reminiscent of stories of gallantry, romance and heroism. It simply means that you you will treat her with dignity and respect. You will love, honor, cherish and protect her. In return, she will give herself to you, body and soul. She will be your loyal right hand through thick and thin. You will face life together.
It's not a one way street. Both people should treat each other like the most important person in their life. But if one of them stops doing that (either one), they should not expect the other to keep doing so.
I prefer to think of relationships as a TEAM. If you want to win, you have to work together, and use each other's strengths, because no one can win a team sport on their own. You both prioritize the team and are loyal to the team and defend and support the team publicly.
This metaphor fits better in my opinion, and is less likely to lead to entitled behavior than the royalty metaphor.
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These are the coffee cups I bought for my girlfriend and me when she moved in with me. I told her I would treat her like a Queen but I expected her to treat me like as king.
I completely agree... But like you said I want to be treated like King, and I totally treat my girlfriends like Queens. But its two way street if start to feel like she is not into as much, or giving as much as she is receiving then I loose interest.
Of course he should. I woukd too if I loved her…everyone woukd.
If you treat it as an entitlement, he'll stop giving. Never expect more of a partner than you are already bringing to the relationship. Balance is important in all aspects of life. Imbalance will never lead to positive results.
Should we treat each other like majesty? Absolutely.
Hell no! Don't ever treat a non-royal like a royal. She does deserve it, and she should strive to keep your respect. You give that up, and she will walk all over you and cheat on you. Don't waste your time.
And don't do that happy wife happy life crap. Maintain that she puts in as much as you, as best she can. You sense and see bad attitude from her to you, leave her. I am not joking. Many women often change their whole tune when you impose boundaries, and stick to them. Especially after you kick them to the curb.
That is what my mother taught me, and she was wrong. Apparently it’s impossible to conceive of women being anything but beings of pure light and love. I can assure you that treating a woman like royalty absolutely does not guarantee they will return the effort. In fact, few will even attempt to do so. The only woman in my entire lifetime who treated me like royalty was my father’s mother. It was difficult for me to reconcile because it was SO different from how every other girl and woman ever treated me. My own mother wasn’t as kind to me on my birthday as my paternal grandmother was on any given day. I worship that woman to this day, and i would do the same for any other woman who would treat me so well.
My husband definitely does. I'm a cute, petite blonde girl with tits and an ass the size of watermelons, and my husband is a 7 foot tall negro with a foot long BBC. His skin is like creamy dark chocolate, and I just love putting it in my tiny mouth. Every night, he bangs his monster cock inside my little white pussy. Unfortunately, his cock is so incredibly large that it breaks condoms. Because of this, we have 12 beautiful mixed daughters together, and they're all light-skinned. Our daughters are also very supportive of our open relationship as we get bored of fucking the same person all the time.
The should expect this sort of treatment provided they deserve it. Many women these days expect to be treated like a queen but don't deserve to be.
YES!!! And a woman should treat her man like a king. Yeah. A relationship should go both ways.
There are some unattractive girls though who have high expectations. But can’t meet any of the same requirements and wants a guy to do all this stuff and give nothing in return. There are guys who display similar behaviors. Always the kind of people nobody wants. But. I digress.
Yeah. You should treat your partner well. If both did this. Then that’s how relationships work.
I heard a saying I might butcher. But somewhere in the ballpark… If both give 110 percent and only expect 25 percent back. That’s the key
No he shouldn't. Because most women these days don't reciprocate that attitude, in fact they see a man willing to be traditional without expectations for her as an easy mark to take advantage of, not a life partner.
Men have learned the game, many of us have cashed out and the men left will be those you can't get or don't want.
This means men are more careful and any women wanting to be taken care of better prove they're as traditional as he is, and sadly they usually just take offense to the thought of things like cooking and cleaning.
Hopefully this gives a bit of insight into the yes/no and why.Only if the feelings are mutual and she too treats hum like a king, showering him with love, respect and emotion.
He could make the first attempt but after a while, if she doesn't reciprocate his feelings and all she's doing is leech off of him for validation, then she's a toxic person to be around and he's a sad and lonely simp whose world, quite literally IS her and only her.It depends but If you are married with kids and she is taking care of the kids daily feeding taking to school etc then you have to treat her her as a queen even though she might give some attitude because I see some bald men here saying I need to be treated as a king too like it’s a competition. Well I get it maybe culture you are raised matters too.
As a men you should know if you
want your kids to grow up healthy and happy with love from the mother you have to
treat your wife like a queen. Yes you have too.
And if you do then she will treat you like a king too.
In a way yes you
Will get treated as a king but your wife needs it more often then you do IF there is kids around..
I have witness close cousins that mothers treated them when they were kids so poorly because their father treated the mother like shit. Even
to this days my cousin goes to therapies so often.You treat people how you want to be treated. If they don't treat you the same or better, you may want to consider finding someone who treats you just as well as you treat them.
But you also shouldn't expect your man to dote on you if you're not dotting on him.A guy should but he should be doing it because he wants to do it, not because society tells him to.
Essentially it doesn't mean anything if it's not from the heart. Everyone shows love in different ways, so if he does something and it's from the heart, that's him really treating her like a queen.
A homecooked meal for her birthday could mean much more than a fancy dinner in a restaurant to prove to others what he does.Do I think it’s great when we do yes, do I think there’s supposed to be a set balance in a relationship and if it’s too offset then they don’t deserve shit also yes, hard to swallow pill here: not every woman deserves the world, not every man deserves the world, sometimes we fall in love with people in the moment and those rosey blinders really make it difficult to see that sometimes the people we Fall in love with are shit, not worth shit, toxic and never changing and once some women get into relationship where it’s not enough to simply smile and let us touch the booty, we all put in work here times are tough and none of us can afford to be slacking to hard on one side
I would love to treat a woman like a queen, if she didn’t treat me like a peasant as a result. Whenever I tried to treat a woman I liked really well, maybe try to make her day by complimenting her outfit or something like that, I got treated like dirt. So now I just treat women like I treat any other guy, no special treatment. As everyone knows by now, if you’re an attractive guy you can treat women like a queen and she’ll love it. But if she doesn’t find you attractive, it’s creepy. I know where I stand now,
Only reward good behavior. If she's acting dumb and out of line, then you simp out to her anyways, you'll be reinforcing that dumb and out of line behavior.
The thing is, as evidenced by some of the women on this site in fact, a woman that's so spoiled by favoritism no matter what probably won't accept any sort of criticism or be grateful for anything at all. Her lizard brain will know she can get what she wants and it simply doesn't matter.
I think so. And she should treat him like he's her king.
My boyfriend treats me like a queen, which I adore! I am however not an overly cuddly person, and I hate PDA... but he respects that, and knows that I need space. :) I do cuddle with him tho.
of course he should if i receved it i would deffinetly return it it takes 2 to tango fair is fair get on good av onky ever had nice boyfriend who are nice in the begining then i gain there trust and they fuck me over THATS WHEN I FINALLY FOUND OUT AM ALERGIC TO DIPSHITS LOL
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