so i told him that i didn't want to continue the sexual relationship because im not sure if im ready or not. we were both each others first times for starters. his reaction to what i said was understanding but then he kind of went quiet afterwords. when i said i love him, he said "i love you too" which ik doesn't seem wrong, but he has never once said that. he always says "i love you more" and we have a little playful fight about it. im not sure how to think about the situation
He could feel he was a disappointment to you. If you want him to stick around, make sure you clearly state what you like about him and what you value in the relationship. Share how his being in your life has impacted your life. You can also share how your shared physical experience felt and how it impacted you. Just don't leave him hanging... wondering how he might have messed up. There's nothing wrong with saying it felt good, yet the guilt is eating you up. Let him know you want to be intimate with him again, as it felt wonderful, but you first need to work on eliminating the guilt that's eating away at you.
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For me the whole point is to have sex. If the chick doesn't want that with me then what is the point? That dude is probably feeling some major rejection.
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It's hard for him not be unhappy about it, and that's totally understandable
Well he lost you for sex (and love?). Now he's gonna have to get it elsewhere and it's gonna take him a lot of time and effort.
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