If you and your partner live together would you give them a curfew?

[Anonymous]

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+1 y

Just as girlfriend and boyfriend

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+1 y

Would it change if y'all had kids together

[SecretsofKB]

Live with my partner. I have not ever given them a curfew and never will give then a curfew. They are an adult, and I trust them and their judgement. All I expect is a text or a phone call letting me know what they are planning.

If I have to impose a curfew, then we don't need to be in a relationship. Either because they aren't trustworthy, or that I am to insecure to trust the person I love.

[Agape93]

Nope, she can come and go as she wishes, I'm not her mother. All I ask is let me know where you are incase something happens

[OlderAndWiser]

My partner is an adult and does not need a curfew. If my partner is out without me, I want to be informed where she is and who she is with, but I don't control her movements. That would not be a healthy relationship.

[Effably]

Absolutely not.

Would I expect them to be somewhat sensible about things? Sure. But I expect an adult to manage themselves to whatever extent is needed and have no intention or desire to date a non-adult.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Why would I give a curfew? She's probably been fucking up if it ever got that far at all. I would say some bullshit is happening if there would even be a reason.

[slatyb]

Absolutely not. With everyone having a cell phone, I could always text them if it got late just to make sure they were ok.

[genericname85]

no. only if i had to get up really early next day and didn't wanna be woken up by her coming home in the middle of the night.

[TheSpaceGnome]

People still have curfews? I thought that shit died out ages ago.

[Staximus]

I wouldn't give them a curfew, but it's just common decency to go home to somebody you love at the end of the night if you live together.

[OddBeMe]

Of course! Treating your SO like a child is sure fire way of progrssing the relationship!

[JustinTheGreat]

No, im not their parent

[whiskeyontherocks]

No
I can’t imagine being with someone that did

[Wise4myage]

No, that's absurd.