Why does he claim to own me?

[Anonymous]

I've been seeing a guy for a few months now and recently we had sex for the first time. Afterwards he sat with me and looked at me and told me that he "owns me". Why did he say this?

[Guy13]

Because he had sex with you he has claimed you. Don't be messing around behind his back...

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Guy13]

He claimed you. Think like a guy

[20yearsolder]

Sounds to me like he wants to be very controlling. If you don't like it then right now is the time to stop it. If you don't it's never going to get better

[Sixgunsound]

Have you considered asking him why he thinks this? Any speculation by random strangers on the Internet is unlikely to be helpful.

[Summeroflove]

Ask him. Maybe you shouldn’t have sex before marriage and have such creepy encounters.

[dreamstar72]

You should have told him and “maybe however the way I see it I own you much more. Think about that and my advice is don’t f¥(£ up”

[slatyb]

Creepy. What did you say? Sounds like he's looking for something you aren't into.

[Anonymous]

That could be a red flag that he's extremely possessive.

[BJP21]

That is a big red flag. He thinks he can control you and what you do.

[Anonymous]

Id ask him why he said that, and if he was being serious, than you need to rid yourself of him.

[Anonymous]

Are you real estate? And can he even afford to own you?

[ThatMadGuy]

If he said it out side of sex then you should leave him for good.

[Iron_Man]

He’s just kidding around

[Anonymous]

because he's a controlling psycho