Why does he have such of a hold on me?

[Anonymous]

Every since I met this guy I have been head over hills for him!I love the feeling I get when I see his handsome face.Ugh how do I deal with this.Oh yea he is my ex and he has a new girlfriend now but he still talks to me like I'm his gf.He forgets about her when he's talking to and probably vise versa but I'm still loving him :) I smile all the time when I think about him.I may just be living in my feeling or my own world gosh

[dirtjumper502]

i agree with the girls. move one. he's keeping you around as a back up. its just going to cause problems with any relationships you have in the future. moving on SUCKS but I promise you that it will get easier and you will find someone else. good luck

[Anonymous]

Hun I'm sorry to say this but he's using you you don't deserve that please trust me he wants to feel like he has something to go to if she's not that good he more than likely just wants to keep you on the side.

[Jess_17]

You have to move on. You're only hurting yourself still talking to him if he has a new gf.

[JulesGules007]

I say move on. Get the hold off of you so you can get better boyfriend. You will :-)