I got cheated on once. He didn't even confess. I had to find out from sources and pressed the truth out of him. Then when I caught his lies, he starts begging.
I placed my condition. I would only take him back (I lied, it was just a trick though) if he allows me one hallpass with a guy he hated. He felt that offer was disgusting and declined it. I called him out on being a hypocrite and full of BS.
Nevertheless even if he had said yes, I wouldn't have done it. I just wanted to see his reaction. But why are cheaters also hypocrites, esp in some men? They can cheat and have their fun but I can't?