My boyfriend lost his job during COVID and since then he’s gone into some sort of depression, he lost his childhood friend March of that year so things have been tough. During that time, we both had to move out of our parents and agreed to live with eachother. I understood he was going through a rough time so I was there for him taking care of the rent till he got back on his feet. Well it’s been quite some time since then and it’s gotten to the point where he will start a huge blown out fight if I ask for a measly 300-400 dollars for help with rent. Yes he cooks sometimes and cleans but I’m doing the majority of the housework on top of working and every week he goes out to eat with his mom, leaving me to come home with the money I asked for him to leave on the table not there, and the kitchen a mess. He says it’s because he has no income coming in but the guy has 40k in his bank, and although he says it feels like “blood money” he has an additional 10k he saved up. I can never save because I’m living pay check to paycheck and I’m starting to resent him.
I thought his mom was my friend, so I texted her explaining my frustrations with him saying no the moment I asked for a little help. She never answered me and proceeded to pick him up for dinner and that hurt. I’m so angry inside and I want to kick him out but I’ve never been in this situation before. He gets really aggressive and mocks me when I cry and tells me “I’ll be out the end of the week” but he never does. I feel like I’m going to explode from stress and anxiety
I thought his mom was my friend, so I texted her explaining my frustrations with him saying no the moment I asked for a little help. She never answered me and proceeded to pick him up for dinner and that hurt. I’m so angry inside and I want to kick him out but I’ve never been in this situation before. He gets really aggressive and mocks me when I cry and tells me “I’ll be out the end of the week” but he never does. I feel like I’m going to explode from stress and anxiety
