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Help? Am I overreacting?

  • Honestly feeling like ending things, it just feeling’s exhausting. Been having this on going issue where we’ll be on the phone, and he’ll space out, or go silent. So I tried to talk about it twice recently and he just phased it out. Says sometimes he’s just listening or doesn’t have a response. There’s times I’ll even just ask a question and he’ll not respond and so I’ll sarcastically answer it myself and he’ll laugh, and then I realize….. ok so he heard me and just says nothing. Cool… so why stay on the phone… when I try to get off the phone he doesn’t want to. He’ll say “I’m right where I need to be” or “my game can wait I rather be in the phone with you” … and it’s but you’re not responding. Yesterday he asked what was wrong so I told him what happened at work. He did it again. So I try to talk about it and he again denies it, says again he just doesn’t have a response. So I just get off the phone. We didn’t speak all day today, and then I call him and he lies and says “I called you at 9:40 but you were at work I figured you wouldn’t get it anyways” I’m like my phone was on, you didn’t call but ok. We then start to talk about the issue and I say “I hear what you’re saying, I still feel a way but I hear you” He goes “well if you don’t want me to come by tomorrow anymore I understand” I’m like I never said that, if you feel like you don’t want to come anymore you can say that instead of projecting that onto me. He says “well if you feel a way I understand if you don’t want me to come” he then asks me if I’m still sitting in my car I say yes, he goes “well don’t sit in the car it’s late, go ahead inside” the call ends. Am I overreacting
Help? Am I overreacting?
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