Do you believe that there is someone for everybody? Although it was only 6 months long thank god, I just got out of a horrible toxic trauma bond relationship. I’m ashamed to even say that I stayed with him for that long. I’m not gonna go into all the details but it was ABUSIVE. He pawned my stuff for meth, he’d tell me to go kill myself the day after i told him how bad my depression was and how I was feeling suicidal. But he also love bombed the shit out of me saying I’m his forever and that he’s never been with anyone like me before all that BS. Obviously I’m nowhere near ready for a new relationship. I want to heal myself before getting with someone else. But do you believe that there is really love for everyone? I’ve gotten to the point where I was so hurt and after having a toxic relationship before this one, I’ve given up.
I do believe so. Unless someone’s a bad person. I think sometimes God ordaines people to be together. But someone doesn’t make the right choices in life and God might have to change it.
Which is why sometimes I feel God removes people form our lives. Because it’s not meant to be anymore and sometimes he’s protecting us. Like Garth Brooks some of Gods greatest gifts. Are unanswered prayers. Every time I would think or someone from my past. That song wouoe come on on the radio. On my phone listening. In the store. The list goes on.
Turned out…. There was a reason.
While other times, sometimes there is nothing wrong with either people. God brought you together to teach you something or to help one another in some way and then he removed them when their missions in life changed.
Every relationship has a reason. Some for a reason and others they last a lifetime.
Somrtimes we like to see only the good in people and think they’ll change or they’re good sometimes. So we keep them around.
But. It’s not until we leave them that we realize we were better off without them.
I think if you’re a good person. There is love for you. There is a man out there who will love you the way you deserve to be loved and you will love him the way he deserves to be loved.
Don’t let some hellbent heart leave you bitter.
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I don't believe that we are fated to be with only one person who is our "soul mate." I think there are many people with whom we can be happy if we meet them, invest the time to get to know them, and are willing to make the efforts needed to develop and maintain a relationship.
Over the past 50 years, I have been in serious relationships with nine different women; each one of these relationships lasted at least a year. When I think back on those women and I compare them, they are so different that I know there is not just one woman, or even just one type of woman, with whom I can find romantic happiness.
No, I don't believe so. Not in a bleak, nihilistic sort of way.
It's a fact for many reasons.
Some don't make the right choices in partners, some don't look for it, some don't believe romantic relationships are for them and they have another calling in life, some have crazy expectations that could never be met.
In your situation, I do think the best thing is to not even think about relationships right now. Take the time you need to figure yourself out. But obviously, that's your call on what to do and how to do it.
I would make a list of traits that are red flags, so that in the future when you spot them, you take a step back.
I think there can be and is, but people have issues that they haven't addressed or fixed yet before getting into a relationship. Sometimes God will keep you single cause He has unfinished work with you, things that need to be confronted and healed. A lot people say they want love and relationship but as soon as they get it they don't know what to do with it. People say "oh I want a boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband" but they haven't fixed their commitment issues. Rhey want someone to listen or be there in their time of need, but they run when things get to hard or uncomfortable. That's why a lot people are single or in unhappy relationships.
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Perhaps…. It is good that you are taking alone time to heal. So many people jump from relationship to relationship.
The bible says if you live a decent life and you need somebody, people will appear.
OMG! I'm so sorry that happened to you. I can't imagine the pain you went through.
Ok, so I think anyone can find true love if they are ready for it. If you are ready to put true love out, and you give it time, I believe it will come back to you 10 out of 10 times. I think it's great you are going to put the time in to heal, and grow. I think that if you want, when the time comes, you can find your person.
I'm not sure if I believe that there is a specific person. That comes down to fate and I don't know how I feel about fate yet, so I'm on the fence
No there definitely is not love for everybody. Everyone has their heads stuck so far up their own entitled asses that a huge percentage of people will never find what they think is love. Love is not a feeling, it's the actions you take, it's putting someone else above you in certain situations, it's a decision, and it's hard work in most cases. People give up to easily these days that it's rare to find a couple that have been together for very long. Men and women lack the communication skills and patience that long term relationships require. Although I'd love to believe there's someone for everyone, the sad truth is that there's not.
Love is a delusion that is created by endorphins.
No, there is not someone for everyone.
That the only woman in my bed has four paws, yellow eyes and a beautiful purr is evidence of that.
When I was a young man the members of the female collective kicked me aside in their pursuit of ‘exciting’ sociopathic bad boys, so I went my own way.No, but there is love for everyone who isn't an asshole or sociopath.
However, for most people, it will be so hard to find it, that it will feel like it doesn't exist, because humans are very bad at opening up to strangers, and that makes sifting through an extremely large amount of people to find a perfect match very hard, even though there are probably minimally several hundred thousand perfect matches for each decent person thats also very picky.I dont think love is something that just exists, sometimes it needs to be created in order to be there. The trick would be finding someone who fits with you and likes you for who you are.
No, I absolutely don't believe in that sentence. That sentence is just nonsensical. Love is certainly not for everyone. Not for all types of people.
Only a very few lucky of them get that.There is, but not if you don't have enough self respect to leave a broken relationship. Most are guilty of this, just need to have more self awareness to not get stuck in toxic situations.
Yes, there is Love for everyone, trust me I'm not that good looking but I imagine there is someone out there for me who knows?
No I have given up trying to find anyone these days it's all about sex and money nowadays- I am committed to God at this point
Yes even pedophiles
https://www.youtube.com/embed/s7In-KGxduUSeriously this chick is a pedo loophole 🤣
I don’t believe so. It’s all about looks and money these days..
I don't believe to soul mate.
Love is something you build for years.
So yes I believe and hope there is love for everybodyI think so for sure as an optimist mind set, that being said though I don’t think it’s the whole Hollywood idea of romance.
No there isn't "love" for everyone, "love" certainly doesn't exist in my life.
Seems like there are plenty of both sexes out there. Question is, is there enough with your particular preferences?
No, I truly believe some people aren't meant to be loved.
Dont even doubt, there is love for everyone.
Nope. Just a comforting lie to make the lonely feel better
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