Is it true once a cheater is always a cheater? what makes a cheater change?

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is it true once a cheater is always a cheater? what makes a cheater change?

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The only people that remain cheaters are selfish by nature, and have absolutely no guilt and do not reflect on lessons to be learned from previous relationships.

For example. I cheated once. I was young and stupid. After everything was said and done, I looked back and realized that I cheated cause she did. And I was unhappy with being her boyfriend. That being said, the better option would have been to simply end the relationship.

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100% false. People do change after making a mistake.

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  what makes them change?
  
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  People mature and correct their ways.
  
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Not necessarily, but I wouldn't want to be the fool who has to find out.

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  what you mean
  
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slatyb Follow
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No, it isn't. People cheat for various reasons. Someone that cheats in one relationship may not cheat in another.

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  what makes them change?
  
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  The circumstances. I'm most sympathetic with people in failing marriages with children -- maybe their spouse has checked out for whatever reason.
  
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It's like getting slim after people become overweight. Very tough but a few succeed in the longest-term.

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spartan55 Follow
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Even if they happen to be the extremely rare reformed cheater... why take the risk? Why bother? You will never trust him/her... fuck that

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Essentially. They may not be a cheater after your relationship is over; but if you ever get back with them they are just as likely to cheat on you again. The only way to change a cheater is to dump them and never go back.

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  what makes them change?
  
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  You leaving them for good. And them realizing that their cheating has consequences.
  
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Would you gamble your own life on a cheater? I wouldn't.

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  Probably nothing.
  
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Anonymous
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Yes. If a woman cheats on you once, dump her and move on because she will NOT change.

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  what makes them change?
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  Most likely nothing. I mean I guess it's possible that they find someone that they value above themselves, but for how long? People who cheat are selfish, plain and simple. Because when someone cheats they're in essence saying that there own personal gratification is more important thier partners feelings.
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  People who cheat have have character flaw. That's all there is to it. Which is why you don't ever WASTE your time trying to rehabilitate one. You can't someone's character.
dudeinohio Follow
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Cheaters are always cheaters.

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  why you say so
  
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- dudeinohio
  
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  In my experience seeing how people. i know act.
  
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- Asker
  
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  how they act
  
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- dudeinohio
  
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  Yeah. They are in relationships and cheat.
  
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  how to break that
  
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- dudeinohio
  
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  I don't think it's possible. It's programmed into their personality
  
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Anonymous
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A cheater will always cheat.

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  how to break that
  
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  Easy… stop being with them and find someone who is not a piece of shit human being.
  
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