Do you think once a cheater always a cheater?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

If they genuinely repent and turn away form their sins they can be forgiven and move past this. A lot of Christian’s do become angry with me and throw this verse out there about letting the prostitute free, what they conveniently leave out is the part about going and sinning no more.

Unfortunately there are people who are long past feeling any shame, remorse, guilt, regret, and the list goes on. It’s much harder to help these people and whether they are salvageable is between themselves and God.

At the end of the day if a person whose a cheater finds someone they’re genuinely getting something out of they may hide their ways of cheating some are better then others. But you better believe at some point sooner or later they will cheat on you.

Why would they do such a thing? Well it’s because it’s the only time they’re happy is getting off it’s like drugs they need more and more. So when they get bored of having sex with you they will go fuck somebody else.

Now I get there are other forms of cheating besides sexual cheating there is also romantic cheating as well as emotional cheating.

Nobody is perfect I’m not excusing someone’s actions but if someone genuinely takes accountability for it and I do mean genuinely there are lots of people who fake it and don’t mean it. Maybe they felt unsatisfied or got tempted which led them to doing the wrong thing. Not a excuse but they feel horrible and should about what it is that they did.

There are also people who have become unsatisfied in a relationship so they go look for that connection somewhere else. Someone whose not a coward would break off the relationship they’re in many times this comes from a lack of communication as well as someone staying with someone they’re not happy with because they would rather that then be alone in peace and eventually find someone else.

Cheaters are super weird because when they’re cheated on it’s the end of the world meanwhile they’re running around racking up bodies hypocrites. But most people with dark personality traits are very one sided rules for me but not for thee type of individuals.

Not saying all people who have cheated at some point are, but a large percentage especially habitual even chronic cheaters have dark personality traits. This can be narcissists at best, sociopaths, at worst psychopaths, even dark empaths, etc. Best to avoid these people at all costs if you can help it!!!

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

In the sense that you cheated you will always be that cheater so yes... And the cheater not only has to fix. Then inside that made them cheat but it's also they have to fix their liar because they light all the way through it they are thief because of what they stole from the other person and it's just too much for that person to have to go through I mean maybe in time lots of time and they might not ever do it again who knows but who cares they broke somebody's heart they lied about it they didn't care what they were doing to that person when they were doing it they were selfish so I look at yes once your cheater you're a cheater and you will always cheat because I know in my heart there's many thousands of people out there that are not that person are not cheaters and that person would not does not have to ever be in my life so that's the reason why I'm a butthead and say what I said because there's no reason to even have them in your life is the way I see it no matter how sorry they are there was a moment that saved right before they kiss the person they were with they thought about it and said I'm going to cheat right now and they said I don't care I'm doing it then they were going to have sex I'm going to have sex right now I'm married I've got a girlfriend boyfriend. I don't care I'm going to do it see they had five different red flags come up. And they said I don't care I'm going to do it

. You got finished doing what they were doing they kiss goodbye they went home to their spouse the better half whatever..

Oh hi honey how was your day kiss me kiss me

Nothing my day was great oh by the way I won't be home this weekend cuz I got to do this and that
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They play you and play you and play you they think you are stupid they think you will never find out but the truth always comes out no matter what..

All the above is 10 times worse than the cheating I think I can handle the cheating probably.

But then you go to the distance of lying and pretending nothing ever happened and that you're getting away with something that's the part that I say get away from me because that's when they're playing you but anyway I guess it's up to each individual

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

The only and solely reason to remain with cheaters it to cheat on them and to betray them when it's only possible and to dump them at Christmas evening or when they are sick or in life danger and need help. Hurting cheaters in most cruel way is okay and grants a place in heaven, valhalla or nirvana.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

@itsannalee  A Leopard Never Changes Its Spots.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Diving straight into the ocean of love and loyalty, let's swim through the waves of trust and betrayal. "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is a phrase as catchy as the latest love song but isn't necessarily a one-size-fits-all. My time navigating the intricate waters of relationships has taught me that people are complex beings capable of change. Transformation is never off the table; after all, we aren't static characters in a romance novel but evolving protagonists in our own life stories. People cheat for myriad reasons, be it emotional dissatisfaction, communication breakdowns, or a momentary lapse in judgment. That doesn't excuse the heartbreak it causes, but it does mean that someone who's wandered from the path of monogamy might find their way back, given the right circumstances, self-awareness, and commitment to change. Remember, love, it's not about the stumble; it's about the journey back to standing tall and walking straight. 🚶‍♂️💔➡️❤️

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Yes, unless the cheating happened at a very early age, many years ago.

V_Injector · Answer

They have the greater tendency to cheat. That is all.

natured · Answer

I can't narrow this down to a YES OR NO, because I believe that people can change, I also believe that some people won't change... we're not the same.
I know somebody that stopped because they met somebody special and had a happily ever after with no cheating whatsoever... so I believe that you're not ALWAYS a cheater depending on the cirumstances

Ladsin2 · Answer

A woman? Sure... Lol no I'm not sure on this one. Men who have the opportunity to cheat will cheat a significant proportion of the time. Women who cheat are trying to leave their relationship and looking for a new man because they don't respect their current one. If that's the case then it would seem to imply that men could be forever cheaters if they have options; whereas, if a woman gets with a man she loves and respects she is more likely to be faithful. I'm not entirely sure how to answer this one.

Berethor · Answer

If she cheated once, it easy for her to do it again, I don't trust hos, I prefer good girls.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I think until the underlying emotional issues creating the behavior are addressed, I'd expect the same behavior.

That seems to apply to most issues, not just this one. There is something driving a persons behavior. They must decide to change it, no-one else can.

Miristheiss · Answer

Yes.

Basically what that means is, is that someone has ever cheated... ever they would have never been an option as a long term girlfriend or wife. That is a line that once it is crossed it can never be undone.

The second I find out someone has cheated, even if it was 5 years prior that would be a deal breaker.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Not always... the person has to be willing to look at and really understand why they behave the way that they do though. Most people are only willing to do that work once they've had cheating blow up in their face. Some simply do it because cheating made them feel awful, even though they didn't get caught.

Cutegirl06 · Answer

I know if someone cheated on me I would never trust them again! It's like if someone lies to you you can't believe anything else they say after that.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Always! Been there done that...
She cheated on her then boyfriend, she became my wife, but i was so blind that didn't even see that she was cheating on me also... so yeah, That saying is 1000% Accurate.

WindAtMyBack · Answer

Nope. You can never predict the future, no matter what. Sure, a lot of cheaters may continue to cheat. But a lot won't. People can do complete 180s.

sawno · Answer

No, people can change. But its very true that once a cheater always more likely to be a cheater than someone who would have never done it in the first place. So do you want to take that risk?

bobalife · Answer

I think it’s an infamous line that’s not really healthy. Sure it’s common, but people can change if they choose to change because they want to change. It’s a gray area.

LazerBean · Answer

Not necessarily, but it's not worth it to risk finding out.

worldscolide · Answer

People can change if they want to.. Most cheaters simply aren't capable of it.. They aren't human, they exist without empathy, without a soul. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Peridot25 · Answer

Absolutely! Never trust a cheater even if they cheated once. I don’t care if they do everything to gain my trust back, I don’t want them touching me. And I never want to see them again.

Walksbehindtherows · Answer

Yes of course but this only applies to women, women should be loyal to their men. Men should be loyal to women but every man needs to have sex with other women sometimes.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, not always but can they ever be trusted again, probably not.

spartan55 · Answer

100%. I also believe they are someone I wouldn't trust enough to take my trash out.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Nope, it might be less than more but one can learn and not do it again.

woahhh152 · Answer

If he/ she felt really bad for what he/she did then no

Guanfei · Answer

I don't know, but I wouldn't take the risk. If she did it once, why wouldn't she do it again?

MicahRaine · Answer

Unless they can articulate why they changed, yes

Jerre · Answer

Not necessarily. If he or she finds the right person, they could very well settle for that one person and not cheat.

SunnyGirly · Answer

Yes if he did it to someone else he can do it to anyone

rienna888 · Answer

Yeah if they find what they needed, which was missing in previous relationships.

nawtee_me · Answer

Everyone is different and while that might be the case for some, I don’t think it is for all.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No necessarily, but I for one would not be willing to find out.

art84 · Answer

Yes I do believe that when it comes to cheaters.

Maybeyoutoo · Answer

Of course, cheating is a sin and can never be forgiven.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No, but the liklihood of them doing again is high though.

MyBrainsInsaneReign · Answer

I think people can change... but usually they don't. Has this guy given you any indication that he's mended his cheating ways?

Anonymous · Answer

Women cheat more than men.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope... that's not always the case

Kelly6 · Answer

@itsannalee Strongly disagree.

Staximus · Answer

For the most part

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Life is complicated. It depends.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Once expensive always expensive

MemeSupreme · Answer

BRAND THEM

Pupweb · Answer

No I don’t

MasterKS · Answer

May be may not be, its all depend upon a person!

elizamichale1 · Answer

Not necessarily

soe11 · Answer

I say yes.

Anonymous · Answer

No...

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely

AIexandra · Answer

Absolutely

TurboAnon · Answer

Most likely. Yes.

eagle1951 · Answer

yes i do

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