My boyfriend plays mind games and I think he’s cheating? do I just leave?

[Anonymous]

I say boyfriend because he classes me as his girl but I don’t exactly know what it is 100% to be honest. I feel like he’s playing games with me all the time and I’m so emotional and it hurts.

He hasn’t responded to me in 19 hours since yesterday and he always does this because usually I react and he says I like my reactions because it shows I care about him and that I’m not speaking to others and I just feel like this is playing games? He also tells me how I’m gonna be his future wife yet treats me like I’m just a side chick.

He also had sex with a girl the other day his best friend told me since he wants me. Do I just end this here? I feel hurt it’s only been 2 months and it’s already going like this so soon? Shall I just message him and say I don’t have time for this anymore. I’m really upset. This happened with my old ex and it’s bringing me down. Will it just get worse from here, we haven’t even had sex yet whihh I’m glad about but I don’t know if to message him as this might reward his bad behaviour!

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And he hasn’t seen me in 1 week and a half considering we are meant to be ‘official’ and ‘exclusive’ and he literally took another girl out on a date but it saying he wants me

[DaveJord]

Let me be clear on this;

"My boyfriend plays mind games and I think he’s cheating? do I just leave?"

You are saying that he plays mind games, and you think he is cheating. Do ou really need me to answer this question?

The better question is why would you want to stay?

And do not say because you love him... because that really possible with these types of people.

[Asker]

Is it okay if I was to just text him saying ‘I’m not dealing with this’ because I am fed up of everything

[DaveJord]

Yeah, for sure, that is what I would do if a woman was making me feel this way. When he replies to you just say goodbye and then block him. So, he can't say you just ghosted him. You said goodbye and you told him why. That the mature thing to do, and honestly that more than most would get.

Don't get in a texting war with him, it only negates your point... short a sweet then block. That is what I would do.

[DaveJord]

Say whatever you want to say.

last time I time I did something like this to women... like a month ago I says something like.

"I will assume that we let this relationship got away from us, just not the right time or place. Feel free to lose my number, I wish you the best."

Took her three weeks to reply to that... but by then I was cooled off about things. We talked for another three weeks then I killed it for certain without leaving any doubts about it. But I should of just blocked her and ghosted honestly the first time.

[slatyb]

You aren't happy. Just end it. Your primary relationship should be a source of comfort, not a source of stress.

[Anonymous]

It will go on for worse if you dont leave. You are valuable, you a worth the world. You deserve a man who will treat you right. It's better to be alone than with someone and miserable. Please take care of yourself first. Dont let him suck you back in. You know how you want to be treated

[James899]

Spoke to him and tell about everything you feel. dont keep it with in you. it will hurt you more and after sometime it will haunt you more...

[Asker]

But whenever I get emotional with him he says he laughs about it and dosent like stuff like that

[James899]

Can you PM me. we can talk more about it?

[In_Trance]

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