Guys, what do you get out of a relationship that you couldn’t get from a cook, cleaner and hooker?

[Subarugirl]

[MrOracle]

That would depend heavily on the woman. With some women, you'd get much less than you'd get from a cook, cleaner, and hooker, and with others, you could get much more, including love, loyalty, partnership, companionship, and children.

The big problem today is that so many women are completely uninterested in giving a man anything in a relationship - despite often having a multi-page list of things he must provide for her - and so many men aren't able to find a suitable woman of "relationship material." And some women are willing to bring more to the relationship, but ONLY for a top 5% man (even if she's a 5/10 herself), and if she had to "settle" for an 8/10, she feels entitled to do nothing for him.

That's what's causing a lot of men to completely abandon hope of a relationship and just build their own lives.

Yes, there ARE good, relationship-material women out there, but there are far fewer of them then there are men looking for them. And most of the men that those women WANT are not looking for a relationship at all.

[Starbers99]

Haha - a bit harsh on us womenfolk there. I would say there are a lot of men and women looking for the same but what all of us wanting a serious relationship and companionship must do is wade through a sea of people who don't, entitled brats who think they can do better, insecure demanding people who seek out high value whilst adding no value themselves - this is life, this is people, man or woman. Men and women sometimes learn the hard way that they wasted their youth/time on someone who can't give them on what they want. It's often worse for women because society prizes youth and beauty and as we age, we lose far more value than men. Relationships between men and women are transactions, people exchange what they have for what they want. It doesn't work for everyone, call it luck, destiny, whatever. Hopefully there is someone for everyone and you have to keep looking where you think you'll find people who are more like you, with the same interests and expectations.

[Finchie40]

Someone that has your back like they want you to have theirs , Love and support , to feel valued and wanted , a companion to share things with , Someone that only has eyes for you that doesn’t need validation from others , Someone that brings happiness into your life not misery , A team partner her and I vs the world , Without any of that then their is no point of wasting your time being in a relationship , Removing selfishness for each other and wearing each other’s shoes before making decisions , avoiding temptations, Making each other feel safe a secure , it won’t always be perfect but you both compromise and come to an understanding , listen to each other and understand you can’t always be right and they are wrong , When you have that with someone you are best to try to make it work at all costs that’s where Love grows

[Avicenna]

You can ask your husband this question.

most guys actually want companionship and someone to love and share their time with.

[Subarugirl]

Oh I already know his answer, but this question isn't for him, its for the guys of gag

[Avicenna]

Fair enough

[PatriceONeal]

She shares a buttplug with him, i. e. she pegs her "man".

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal lol 😂 right and I’m also a dominatrix on the weekends and put little boys like you in their place lmao

[PatriceONeal]

Prove my point some more dumbass 🤣

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal i can't converse with someone who enough social skill doesn't have to understand sarcasm

[PatriceONeal]

What?

[PatriceONeal]

Was "little boys" sarcasm? No.. obviously. dummy.
So you go around literally emasculating strangers but you aren't the leather wearing dominant type? Wuhan? I think you've shown you aren't submissive at all.

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal certainly not to some random asshole who Tries to overcompensate his masculinity online. Lmao 😂

[AviatorTom]

Someone to care about , and who cares about you... and to share life's experiences with.

[exitseven]

Come on @Subarugirl a wife is way more than that. It is somebody who has your back. Last year i had a minor surgical procedure. I assured my wife that i was a big boy and she diod not have to take a day off work to take me to the hospital. She insisted to go anyway. The procedure went well but it was a little painful and I ended up hyperventilating ans my blood pressure dropped and I was sure I was going to lose consciousness. I told the nurse to go out in the waiting room and get my wife. I wanted to make sure she would be there in case I passed out. I didn ;t want some knife happy surgeon giving my liver to some rich guy.

[boredgal]

you're so lucky you have a wife like that. best wishes to both of you :)

[Ill_made_Knight]

Hopefully you will be partners, look out for each other's best interests. Lend emotional support to one another, be a sounding board when your SO feels unsure of their course in business or life in general. I do my best to build my partner's confidence... I would hope that would be returned.

[boredgal]

"I do my best to build my partner's confidence" this speaks so much volume. as someone with low self confidence, I hope I find a guy who would actually build up my confidence instead of belittling my every move.

[Ill_made_Knight]

@boredgal I understand how that feels. Growing up in my late teens and 20's I always felt as if there were family members scoffing at some of the things I tried. Certainly no support really... confidence can be a magical thing.

[DribbleGodCurt]

Emotional support and care, and someone that will be by your side no matter what, even when shit get's bad they will be there they should give you their loyalty and even brutal honesty even if that shit hurts and tell you how you can better yourself, and you'd do the same for them so a bond that is so meaningful it shocks god himself. This is my opinion try not to get mad or upset at it please and thank you and also have an amazing day.

[Lionman95]

A partner that gives me the feeling I´m cherished and acknowledged. A woman I care about I want to get to know better than social media could tell me.

A person to invest time and a partner in crime in changing the world for the better.

[FunkyMonkee]

A crazy little thing called, love! Have you ever heard of it? Have you ever experienced it? How much honesty and loyalty do you get from a hooker? Will the hooker have kids with you? Will the hooker stay with you `til you're both old and grey?

[NathanDavis]

love

by the way... cooking, cleaning and "maintenance" is something I've done since I was a teen, lmfao... absolutely no need to outsource those jobs

[Sixgunsound]

I feel so bad for you if your husband doesn't answer that question for you.

[Subarugirl]

You are so sweet to be concerned. But this question isn't for my husband, I already know his answer, this is for the boys of gag.

[PatriceONeal]

Guys*

[Faith18letsgo]

I’m not a guy but I am gay. I’d be happy to date a cook, cleaner and hooker but they’d have to get STI tested a lot and always use protection.

[Andres77]

Freedom to be me. Being loved and wanted means a lot to me.

i can cook and clean and masturbate myself but being sought out, knowing that someone wants me desperately…that’s a big deal.

[Saltystardust]

A mental connection, someone to be able to confide in when life gets insane.

[EmbraceThePain]

A person that fits my soul or who I am as a person.

[humanearth]

Plain and simple

LOVE

[Sixgunsound]

I feel terrible for anyone living such a lonely lie that they need to ask this question.

[Subarugirl]

@Sixgunsound If feel bad for people who aren't able to comprehend the difference between a question geared towards a specific demographic and personal questions.

[Revvl]

@Sixgunsound
It's the second dumbest question I've read today.

[Sixgunsound]

@Revvl only the second? Haha

[Revvl]

@Sixgunsound
99% of the questions on this site are beyond stupid. I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that if any jackass tried to harm your son, daughter or wife, your six gun sound would be the last sound they ever heard. If it was your cook, cleaner or hooker, the gun would remain in your holster.

[Sixgunsound]

@Revvl you guessed correctly the first try

[Revvl]

@Sixgunsound

Love is a very powerful thing. We all know what happens when you get between a mama bear and her cubs. Someone's going to die.

[CallmeTheKnight]

An actual genuine relationship with someone who cares and loves me by showing me through her actions, words, and consistency.

[Heolurt]

I don't care about sex and I do everything else for myself, so I don't see what a female could bring to the table that is of benefit.

[Subarugirl]

Then you’re single right?

[Heolurt]

I am for many reasons, some out of my control and others that are in my control. If you think getting that kind of information is going to be of use to insult me with, it's not because I guarantee I hear worse things about my face daily then you could possibly say about me being single. You of course are welcome to try if you want.

[Subarugirl]

Well no not at all it just wouldn’t make sense for someone who sees no benefit in something to want it. That wouldn’t make sense.

[Heolurt]

I didn't say I didn't want it, what I want in a relationship is something I could never get, I'm sure I could get a gold digger who could never do what I want and that is where I don't see a benefit for me and honestly without that one thing I want there'll never be a female that would go out with me in the first place.

[PatriceONeal]

No you weren't merely being curios or you would have asked more than a 4 worded question. You're a passive aggresive cunt, that's it.

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal and you just can’t get enough of me can yoh

[PatriceONeal]

No I think my cup runneth over.

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal yet you keep coming back begging for more.

[PatriceONeal]

Why aren't you raising your child or being a wife? Instead of being a narcissistic black hole.

[PatriceONeal]

If you just stop arguing like a child, there will be no need for further correction.

[Subarugirl]

@PatriceONeal still here I see, desperate for more are we? Just can’t get enough can you

[Summeroflove]

Love and support.

[boredgal]

true

[Anonymous]

In a good relationship: a shared history, shared identity, and moral compass. And shared goals. And additional skills, motivation, and foresight to achieve them.

[FilmGuy93]

Passion, feeling wanted, genuine companionship

[pizzalovershouse]

The time spent together doing things you have in comn no hooker house keeper can fill that feeling of being on same page

[TroyDT2]

I can get cooking and cleaning out of a relationship? I knew I was doing this wrong.

[Massageman]

A second paycheck which we need with record inflation.

[PatriceONeal]

Just hooker. Women don't cook or clean. Stop capping.

[Subarugirl]

You must have had a terrible relationship with your mom since she apparently never made you food or cleaned the house. Im sorry that you had to live in such a dirty, neglectful living situation.

[PatriceONeal]

Ylu must have been abused by your father judging how loosely you throw around disgusting subhuman comments about strangers. I'm so sorry you life a terrible life pegging your alpha woth your buttplug you share and ruin that poor sons entire life. Stay absolutely pathetic SubaruGIRL. Never ever change into a kind decent human being.

[PatriceONeal]

Imagine how you tall to your husband when you feel this comfortable mouthing off to a man you don't even know. I wonder why your father left you and your single mother🤔

[Subarugirl]

Which comments are you referring to?
Also my father is a wonderful man who is still married to my mother.

And don’t flatter yourself, I don’t care if you are a man or woman, I’m not going to let anyone treat me like you think it’s okay to treat me. No wonder women don’t want Anything to do with you.

[PatriceONeal]

You live in a fantasy world where you're a constant victim and suffer from mouth diarrhea. How can you possibly make a good parent or wife is beyond me. Enjoy your vile lifestyle 🤣

[PatriceONeal]

You're so stupid you forgot the premise of your own question.

[Subarugirl]

You aren’t understandable when you’re so emotional. Do you want to calm down and try again

[PatriceONeal]

You need to go ask a man to explain the world to you. You resemble more chimps than humans subgirl.

[Subarugirl]

wow they were right when they said that you are overly emotional and dramatic. I will let you calm down and regain control of your emotions.

[PatriceONeal]

Who is "they"? The voices inside your spinster head?

[PatriceONeal]

Yoùasked about relationships then changed your premise to talk about mothers. Which is it? I know you peddle in sexual deviance so my confusion is justified.

[mT2359]

All men are actually looking for their mother's in a relationship. They don't admit it but we are subconsciously weird that way.

[EaterPeter]

Not much it is mythical until you get it. Bare some people gets it and that is not constant either

[EaterPeter]

Barely *

[EaterPeter]

Or consistent

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Sparkie460]

I get love, affection, companionship, someone to come home to every night.

[Anonymous]

Following your logic, well a relationship will be cheaper than hiring a cook, cleaner, or hooker on regular basis.

[Anonymous]

Well it’s safe sex! Hooker sex isn’t safe sex! Big difference

[Anonymous]

love support understanding kindness compassion caring

[Juxtapose]

Obviously the emotional bond and intimacy.

[sheikalana]

A connection, love, intimacy.

[glennos89]

Appreciation, kindness and being taken care off

[Fireguy17]

usually intimacy, something you can't buy or hire.

[loveslongnails]

Someone who actually loves me.

[KrakenAttackin]

Do you think modern women cook and clean?

[Subarugirl]

I do

[PatriceONeal]

Confirmation that you are an idiot domgirl

[Luopio27]

Sexual atraction. Whores ain't atractive to me.

[MountAverage]

Friendship and partnership.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Her. Specifically her.

[grega239]

A partner to go through life with

[Neilbud]

Someone who cares for you.

[admles]

Love and support?

[Anonymous]

Definitely not peace and quiet.

[Alperengin10]

I get pussy for free

[Anonymous]

Endless bitching

[Noahzaid]

Kids!

[Noahzaid]

Loyalty! You name it

[RealMarek]

Love

[Jouth]

meander

[Anonymous]

Nada

[Subarugirl]

Why do you think that?

[Opinion Owner]

I'd really think that I was being sarcastic. My apologies