Women, do you feel differently if your spouse cheats on you with someone who is an ‘upgrade’ or ‘downgrade’?

[Anonymous]

If the mistress is better looking or successful do you feel different versus if she’s not? I’m having conflicting thoughts and I would like others opinions

[QuadDamage]

What do you mean? Looks better or worse, the point is you don't swim in other pools unless it's been agreed upon.

How someone looks compared to the other is completely irrelevant in my pov. That's a very bleach moment of redemption for who ever has been lied upon!

You're either fine with spouse sleeping with others or not. There's no in between. At least not in my book 👍

[QuadDamage]

Also didn't notice you wrote "women"... my bad 😂

[Anonymous]

No judging, please.

I cheated on my wife (31 years old) with a woman who was 36 years old. She was mad because she outright said she could have understood if I went with a twenty-something, but she felt insulted I went with an older woman.

That said, she too cheated on me with an older man. I didn't feel like she was upgrading or downgrading.

[Avicenna]

Mistresses are reared better looking or more successful

[Anonymous]

If your partner cheats, the other person doesn’t doesn’t matter, your partner is human garbage and you need to get rid of them.