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Being in love with wife and my close friend?

Asking for a friend. He is married to his cousin and he has a friend that likes him. He likes her too.

He doesn't cheat or even go meet her but he loves them both.

Do you think as a wife you would be okay if your husband had a close female friend and he told you before anything happens? Would you trust him with her? Obviously they are not cheating by him going to meet her or anything which would be wrong but would you be alright if she talked to him on the phone or met him once in a while. Mind you the marriage isn't love marriage. He was married to his cousin in an arranged marriage.

He hasn't told him yet about his friend out of fear the marriage may be at stake or his wife might stop trusting him.

So, I really want opinion from girls and married guys what would you do.

I am just concerned because the same situation might develop in my life too. So, I want to be ready for it. I myself like a couple of friends who are females but I wonder if it could create a problem in the married life. I certainly want to keep them in my life and not want my wife to feel insecure about it. So, is it worth it or not?

I am no womanizer. And no I have not slept with any of them but in future when I marry I want to keep them close to my heart next in line to my wife. Is it really so wrong to be in love more than one person at the same time. Sure, I understand I can't have kids with my female friends but I dearly hope for the best for them as if they are part of the circle of friends

Being in love with wife and my close friend?
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