Would you rather be with parter who's fit/ripped but strict or a partner who is fat but lenient?

To elaborate more, a fit/ripped and more disciplined partner but who has a weight limit or a fat or dad/mom bod parnter who doesn't mind you being fat together.
Strict fit partner
Lenient fat partner
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Letting GAG randomize the MHO.
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I can also be talking about a fat partner who can cook so well.
Would you rather be with parter who's fit/ripped but strict or a partner who is fat but lenient?
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