Would you or could you have a secret relationship behind your lovers back?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

If I want to be a piece of shit then yes, but I will only be lying to myself that I actually love my partner, so I would be lying to them as well, so what would really be the point of being with them? Convenience? What’s the point of being committed to someone if I can’t stay loyal to them and can’t resist temptation for them? when I am expecting her to do the same for me? If you truly loved them you wouldn’t be cheating on them , if you truly loved them you would let them go so they can go find true love not string them along for your convenience, I couldn't look her in the eyes and tell her I loved her , knowing in the back of my mind that I am a piece of shit , I can’t expect her to be loyal to me if I can’t stay loyal to her , For love to grow both partners have to remove selfishness for each other or it won’t work , you are living a lie and a waste of time , if I cheat on a girl that is my answer to end it with her immediately if she cheats on me I hope she has the dignity to end it with me immediately, cuz I can’t expect someone to love me if I can’t love them the same , Understand that you are a selfish person if you can do that behind your partners back , understand that love only grows when 2 people remove selfishness for each other We can’t force someone to love us but we can treat them the same way we want to be treated , if they choose to walk away then let them go and realize you deserve someone that wants to stand by your side not one that just likes the convenience of you , if a girl can’t stay under the sheets with me her ass can go back to the streets where she belongs , I want a girl to be my whore not everyone else's

[jennifer_bloom]

No. I view two relationships the same way I view trying to do two chores at the same time - it ruins the quality of your personal time and makes you unhappy. If I love a guy I will give all my free time to him and if I don't like him, I will end the relationship so I can be happy alone.

[trina_x]

no id feel too terrible

[dustybiker]

I wouldn’t want to. I’m perfectly happy.

[Nikki1989]

No, I just couldn't do it.

[HighValue]

No. I am not a cheater.

[Midgetmcwidget]

No, never

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[Asker]

Ok why

[Opinion Owner]

Cause my lover sucks dick.

[Asker]

So he is gay

[Opinion Owner]

No I mean he just sucks as a lover.

[Asker]

So he doesn't meet all your needs

[Opinion Owner]

Not at all.

[Asker]

What is he lagging