What does it mean when you aren’t allowed to say no to your girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Like if she wants to do something you automatically have to do it with her otherwise she gets extremely upset and argumentative

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So I can’t if I do say no I’m disappointing her and that’s not allowed

[AdithyaR]

That's very manipulative and a big red flag. A relationship is both mutual consent and that doesn't just apply to sex. You should be able to say no if you're uncomfortable with something.
Her actions sound like they're very unhealthy for a long term relationship.

[mb120101]

Thats called a narcissist. I wasted the best years of my teenage life learning what a narcissist was; its not worth it bro. Being lonely and single for a while is worth it man. you'll find a girl interested in what you want to do. Its worth it man you'll thank yourself.

[mb120101]

If she truly loved you she would meet you halfway. Dont give 75% into a relationship when she's only giving 25% you're playing yourself. Its 50/50

[BlueScorpio]

Sounds a bit controlling and that she may be throwing a fit when things don't go her way. 🤔

[dustybiker]

Why so you want to be with someone like that?

[tenor55]

You have to decide if you really want to live your life like that. I would not be married 50 years without compromise, meeting in the middle. There are things that I do for my wife that I don’t want to do, but I do it because I love her, not to make her happy. And she does the same for me. My wife is not responsible for my happiness and I am not responsible for hers. My responsibility is to love her.

[Vegasrunner]

You need to add more value to yourself. You don't think you can get better so you're willing to tolerate her behavior. My advice drop her and spend some time working on yourself so you won't have to put up w/ things like that.

[SnowedIn]

It means you need a new girlfriend. That's called controlling. And thoughtless.

[jshm2]

That's called "manipulation" and bordering on abuse.

[FinalFantasyBro]

She honestly sounds super controlling and like acting a little child if she doesn't get her way.

[thegooglepixelfan]

That's being manipulative is one of the biggest red flags in toxic relationships.

[cloud9vortex1234]

It means your a slave. Time to breakup if that's the situation your in. There's no Self-Respect in a situation like that.

[LiamJHayden]

It means it's time to end it and find someone less controlling.

[Anonymous]

What does it mean? It means you're a cuck with no self-respect who needs to grow a pair and find another women.

[Anonymous]

It means it's time for a new girlfriend. 🤣🤣🤣

[FilmGuy93]

That you need to find someone new

[Dinosaursandanime65]

They’re nose is in their brain

[admles]

It means you need to break up with her.

[ragnarl0thbr0k]

I call it brakeup