About two years ago, I met a girl from another state who shared common interests with me. I was very respectful towards her because she had a boyfriend. I was always very careful on what I said and made sure we were friendly at all times… she was not the person I thought she was.
She got close to me and revealed her inner demons. She started venting to me about how she cheats on her boyfriend with a new guy every single weekend. Yes, every single weekend. I wanted to tell him. I wanted to warn him and say he was heading towards a fall. He picked a bad girl. She looks innocent but she wasn’t. I never said anything. I wanted to tell him so bad “hey man, come down to California. I’ll find you a cute girl.” I never did:/ she ended up pregnant and created a toxic relationship where he is blamed for the relationship problems. Poor guy. He probably thinks he is at fault for the problems. He doesn’t know and it’s too late to ever tell him.
She started sending me unwanted nude photos of herself. I am way too nice to reject them. I thought of how I could tell her not to send me this. I decided on just deleting without looking too closely.
I never said anything. She got into this habit of sending me pictures of her everything. Her videos of guys doing her.
Am I equally as bad for not saying anything?
Am I equally a bad person for watching my friend cheat on her boyfriend and not saying anything (it gets worse)?
Well... she obviously wanted to red pill the shit out of you and you better be glad you didn't become her target simp. That dude is fucked... lets just be real about that. But at least you've seen what a chick can actually be like. Take it as a gift and don't fall victim to that bullshit yourself.
Lots of people think "gee, if I was that guy, I would want to know, so you should tell him." There's some emotional appeal to that argument. But people are rarely receptive to that kind of information when it is presented; in fact, quite often, they get angry at the person who brings the information, rather than the partner who is cheating.
If you had text messages or photos that clearly proved she was cheating, you could send that t him anonymously, but if you put yourself in a situation where the response depends on him believing you. . . you wll lose about 95 times out of 100.
Wow I can't believe all the people who are saying to butt out. I wonder how they would feel If they were being cheated on and they found out their friends were keeping it from them. What a messed up world we live in when people refuse to speak up when they know someone is cheating.
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Other people's relationships are not your problem or business, unless there's some reason why it should be. You might have dropped him some anonymous e mails or copies of your conversations, and you might have pressured her more to break up with him and do the right thing. That ship has sailed.
As for now, you can tell him to get a paternity test and still expose her if you wish. IF this will get this poor sucker out a jam, I'd do it right away.
Be honest, those videos and pics of her nudes turn you on. That’s why you won’t say anything to make her stop. It’s not the fact you’re too nice but you enjoy what she’s sending you. You wish you could fuck her too.
Why do you keep assuming things? You don’t know if she would make a terrible mother. Just because she isn’t a good girlfriend doesn’t mean she can’t be a good mother. She can change.
Also, cheating isn’t just physically. I’m curious, how would she feel if boyfriend cheated on her? Which, by the way, I believe he has every right to do so. Though she can’t get mad 🤷♀️
Why are you giving me bad advice on purpose like you want me to suffer somehow for this. You know what would happen. She would do the exact same thing to me.
For letting her continue to send you nudes knowing full well she’s taken and you refuse to tell her to stop. The only reason she’s with her boyfriend is because of money. Especially, now she’s pregnant.
If she ends up as a single mother, oh well. She should have thought of that before cheating 🤷♀️ Also, her boyfriend is working hard to provide for her and the baby.
If you’re against cheating, then maybe speak up? Cut her out? I mean, what would you care if she ended up as a single mother? It’s her own fault anyway.
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