What do you think others should know about you before forming a relationship with you?

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Sixgunsound · Accepted Answer

I don't have time or patience for endless complaining about yourself. Fix it or forget it.
I will not be the only person in the relationship with responsibilities and obligations. I will happily work with you to determine what those are, but I expect you to be accountable to the things you agreed to.
There will be no marxist or woke bullshit in my house. Im not interested in a life of constant disagreement and fighting. You can choose which side of the door you are most comfortable on.
I have standards regarding conduct and reliability and trustworthiness that are likely foreign to most people living in the west at the moment. I hold myself to the same standards I have for a potential partner.
I need to see evidence of good financial decision making and household management skills, as I don't have time to waste dating to date and 'see what happens'.
If my kids don't like you I don't like you. You might be able to fool me but kids are walking bs detectors.
If you can't at least tolerate guns in the house we aren't going to get along.
If you can't tolerate brutal honesty you are probably too weak and pathetic to be worth me investing time and energy and commitment into.

Fuentes · Accepted Answer

I'm 100% different then alotta people and see things logically other people DO NOT & so must people are simple minded humans to me.

So If your dumb I won't really engage with you & you really can't tell me what to do and I also like to do what I want & alotta people think that that's not cool, Hahaha

And just because I know to follow chain of command and all policies which I remember on purpose and drill into my head in the work place, so I know how to be defiant if need be, doesn't mean I actually respect you as my subordinate.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

I’m a mood swinger lol.

I’m either intense, or too tired to fight, or make efforts to serve.

He should value when I do my best, and only remember, that I truly only mean well.

The zeal and passions would be for the best, 💪 my affections would be strong, and my persistence to make things (which we both value) to work,

would be genuine.

Any time I stopped, shouldn’t be taken seriously, but he should see “what’s up with me.”

The silence could be me thinking..

or it could be me making a decision to move on.

That’s about it lmao.

I’ll be sure to add a “general relationship” in reply to this answer.
🤜🤛👀

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

You have to be human sized
Open relationships are my thing, so if you're not ok with that, say it before hand or don't waste my time.
You WILL be getting tested before we even kiss, and once a year going forward. Non negotiable and I will be checking.
I am stubborn and I have a very short fuse. Don't push me on certain subjects.

Etc etc

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I won't put up with abuse or an overly demanding guy. I want a guy to include me in his religious activities.

normalice · Answer

I'm not as exciting as people seem to think I am at first. But I suppose no one is and that's really just a lesson people need to learn in general.

I would say probably the most relevant is that I am fast to "cut my losses." Even if married for 60 years if it seems like a relationship is starting to trend net negative, whatever that means, I won't think twice about walking away. I'm not talking about if she gets sick or something beyond our control like that. It's more about a woman becoming an attention glutton where she needs to occupy every corner of my thoughts that isn't spent on work. Or maybe that's called clingy. Whatever it is it sounds like Hell and I'll avoid it the instant I see it coming.

MCheetah · Answer

1. I'm not normal.

2. I don't settle for mediocrity in life; this doesn't apply to merely women, but ANYTHING. I hate averageness/worthlessness in ways you'll never understand.

3. I had a really sh*tty upbringing and still haven't caught up to "everyone else" yet.

4. I'm an emotional amplifier. People who treat me good have my undying loyalty and respect. People who mess with me, always regret it, 100% of the time.

5. I'm the best partner you'll ever have, if you're willing to gamble and roll the dice. But I get it if you're not brave enough for that.

JosyJosy · Answer

I don't rush. I'm not a romantic, so don't expect many "love you's" from me and don't try to cliche sweet talk, cause it's just going to make me push you away instead. I don't sugarcoat things. If you're easily offended, look for someone else.

SnowedIn · Answer

I'm honest; I can be very deferential and diplomatic, but I'm going to say it like it is. I'm intensely loyal. You're going to have all of me -- I'm not going to smother you, but you get all of me -- I'm all in. I'm crazy organized but won't force that on you but at the same time I can't tolerate a slob. I'm punctual and expect others to be.

Sorrento-Sun · Answer

If you're not affectionate or you're a closed book sort of person it's pointless pursuing a relationship together.

I couldn't be in a relationship without affection.

If a guy can't be vulnerable with me, once I've earned his trust, then our relationship wouldn't work. I need him to be open and honest about his life, himself and his feelings. If he's not, then I'd only know him in a superficial way. That's not the type of relationship I'd be happy in.

Msputiton · Answer

I'm great friend. But a horrible girlfriend

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I like things simple and straightforward.

I am soooooo over the complications, people's insecurities, and whatever other weird personal bullshit people have going on. It's not my job to provide you with constant validation and reassurance; nor is it my job to overcome whatever baggage you have from past relationships.

If I like you and you like me; let's stop finding reasons that things can't work. Just shut up and be happy

DizzyDesii · Answer

I talk... A LOT. But i feel thats obvious with how active i am in terms of creating long posts and responding to comments

LiamJHayden · Answer

I'm super loyal but also require a lot of "me time" for my music hobby. She can watch and listen while I'm doing it, but just in case that type of thing bores her I want her to know.

Faith18letsgo · Answer

That I really don’t like being clung to. I don’t want you to ask me to hang out constantly I want you to have a life that’s much much bigger then our relationship.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I can be difficult. If you cheat. It's out. I need my alone time. I'm not always consistent. (For example with physical affection, sex etc.)

moonpie89 · Answer

I don't want kids. I'm spontaneous and random. My family will always come first. I'm an extrovert. I love the outdoors.

SaoirseS · Answer

In my case, that I'm married! Lol

alcorriher · Answer

i talk a lot, im occasionally a little obsessive, i have a big family (3 siblings), i love expensive restaurants 😂

PinkRose24 · Answer

I'm saving myself for marriage and I'm Christian.

jamesgoldman · Answer

My business comes first and takes up a good 70 hours a week

ChiTown33 · Answer

I'm going to give the same energy you show me.

Heolurt · Answer

To not even bother, I don't have the emotional strength to endure anymore kind of emotional stress, which is why I have given up on people.

driven159 · Answer

That I don't put up with bullshit life is too short for that and if you are afraid of the answer don't ask the question

Blackcupcake · Answer

you just can’t say no to me😁

NathanDavis · Answer

I might bite...

BJP21 · Answer

Be prepared for I'll mannered humor at a serious moment to lightened you up.

BeMuse · Answer

They can figure it out as they go. I don't expect anyone to be a mind reader.

rachel776 · Answer

i am busy almost all the time

dustybiker · Answer

That I talk about riding quite a bit.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I am obsessed with music.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

That I am demanding and sometimes lazy hehe

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I'm only brutally honest because I care.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Im bunny

KerriH · Answer

I have a big mouth

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