Being 100% honest, what is the most important thing you would want someone to know about you, before dating you?

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Guy13 · Accepted Answer

I would hope she already knew that I’m an intentional and serious person SO after Family okays, joint Vision and Means clarity, shared and current criminal, credit, medical, and yearly income…”By then”, I assume you already know that I’m a likable Freak but are unsure what that “not quite right” Factor or Cause is….

You are not to seek or know about my Work or that Person, although you are aware that 2800 households, 8000 plus lives, and significant amount of others money are a daily responsibility. I don’t like 90% of my Work person and some of those things I should not like, I love. The plus is I could never work on Wall Street…. I’m not that dead inside. You do not need to live here.

If you are unable to keep your CIA, FBI, Private Investigation senses and personality checked at this door, you need to tell me now.

Dream response: I already know what a F-up and deep seeded A-Hole you are, you’re good to me, and I’ve accepted that.

itsalyssaagain · Accepted Answer

If we are dating in the real sense, leading to a relationship, then I want them to know that I put up a rough front but I am actually very delicate on the inside and I really need to be taken care of. I need reassurance and lots of love because I've been through a lot in my childhood and in my relationships.

JosyJosy · Accepted Answer

That I'm looking for something long term and will take my time. And I've seen enough toxic bs, and I'm tired of it. So if he tries to pull any of that, he's out, right away.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I don't drive, I like sea food, I hate pork.

AviatorTom · Answer

It would be nice if they knew my name.

HuskyJ · Answer

Seems rather strange to discover so at 40 plus years of age - that I am still a virgin (3 times 'married' but since none of it was consumated marriage - turns out just 3 times engaged. And that I am looking to tie the knot - to father in a 'first time right' fashion, for happily ever after, so - to, as a virgin/never having done so before, consumate marriage - which means it'd be a pregnancy right away.

Also, that I am looking for a girl who never had an orgasm with another, so did not take the contraception pill, nor gotten pregnant before, nor aborted, so - a virgin herself (I am looking for someone I already saw/met on a bus in Oxford on 29th December 2022, she has a Husky puppy face like mine and is more or less a genius IQ wise, like me)

Anonymous · Answer

i already have someone who i've been with for years. but to answer the question, i'm very set in my ways, get sad a lot, may be autistic and have ADHD, so be prepared to usually see me eating the same things etc for comfort. so yeah, moral of the story is, don't lmao

RobEdelman · Answer

I love my family more than anything (parents and brother). I like to take things pretty slow and build a significant bond/trust before getting physical in a relationship. I have lots of sexual fantasies, but am waiting for the right person before getting involved in those types of activities. Otherwise it would feel empty and pointless

Guanfei · Answer

Aside from my physical issues, I'd say... I love physical contact, a lot. Any kind of physical contact. I could spend my time hugging, cuddling, kissing, anything, even just holding hands.
I've been deprived of love too much so now I give too much, too.

Agape93 · Answer

If you try to control me, or you hurt me or a loved one of mine, it will end badly for you. I'm patient, im lenient in many things, but those are two of the things you don't fuck with me about.

SnowedIn · Answer

If we date, I'm all in. I'm not going to smother you or control you or even love bomb you, but you're getting all of me.

HappyWoman34 · Answer

That I have a mild mental illness, sensory issues and Autism. Best to get skeletons out of the closet early.

dustybiker · Answer

I was very clear that I do adventurous things and would not stop just because they at some point might become worried. Part of the package.

MCheetah · Answer

I'm very insecure about my height/how short I am, and I had a very sh*tty childhood that I still have some baggage from.

Faith18letsgo · Answer

I will break your heart.  Just kidding, wanted to write that but I’m actually sweet and commuted.

Anonymous · Answer

I have epilepsy  I don’t have high self esteem based on the way I look. It’s not very low but I don’t see myself as pretty.  I’m 24 and never had sex.  I have had jaw surgery before.

vetociw626 · Answer

Be willing to have deep discussions about what you want and who you are. I won’t waste time on someone if I’m not confident we’re compatible.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I can't be controlled. If you are the possessive type, leave me alone.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

That i am always 100% honest and i expect the same in return.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

If they can still tolerate my personality and goals, then it will be no problem.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I'm clingy af. Like, physically clingy. I needs lots of physical affection.

Rania05 · Answer

That I'm asexual, won't have sex without marriage and my religion

LiamJHayden · Answer

I will never consent to marriage under current laws,  unless  I end up terminally ill and the only way to avoid inheritance taxes is to marry.

Crafteroon · Answer

I can't read your mind. I need someone who tells me what they want and how they feel.

HighValue · Answer

I have conservative morals and I want a partner that will play board games with me. :)

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I can maybe joke around too much, and I might offend people with some jokes lol

Asking_for_knowledge · Answer

That I’m the jealous/protective type and I don’t like open minded women. and that I have a thin DK.

sheikalana · Answer

I'm a very anxious partner and have some insecurities and issues.

Sasha0426 · Answer

I would tell them I’m inexperienced. I don’t want them to waste their time with someone who doesn’t know what they’re doing.

soe11 · Answer

Openness Trust  No selfishness

alcorriher · Answer

that they’d have a lot of people to meet. also, theyd gave to pass a test 😝

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I get very cranky and mean if I'm hungry and tired.

AsaKyo · Answer

I have trust issues, I'm scared of intimacy, and I have very low self-esteem

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

I am a grower and saying it’s above average is an understatement nevertheless I’m an acquired taste in the bedroom

coachTanthony · Answer

one word. Prenup lol

SilentCricket · Answer

I’m extremely shy and sometimes hard to open up. I do have some trust issues unfortunately but when I do feel comfortable and open up I am all in 300%.

Anonymous · Answer

i'm quite stubborn and probably emotionally repressed but i do care even if i can't show it

BJP21 · Answer

I dont tolerate Cognitive Dissonance, Gaslighting, Verbal, Mental, or Emotional abuse.

SlavicThor · Answer

I have strict boundaries and not afraid of enforcing

Juxtapose · Answer

I need them to be direct with me, don't beat around the bush.

Avicenna · Answer

That I want to have more kids

OddBeMe · Answer

I need my time alone. Until I want sex. Then you leave me alone right after.

Anonymous · Answer

As much as it pisses me off, the most important thing someone has to know about me is my height. The last thing I want to do is be scolded for selling someone false illusions.

msc545 · Answer

I'm an animal lover, a pacifist, and an empath.

Tomisworthless · Answer

I’m a virgin, never dated and everyone thinks I’m a faggot

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing. There's no shortcut, easy way to me. She's going to have to put in the work.

Anonymous · Answer

that i'm a sexual kinkster open to a lot of things, as long as they're healthy

Anonymous · Answer

That I'm a nudist and she'd need to be OK with it 👍

Curiousandhavetoask · Answer

I would want them to know I have anxiety. I think disclosing mental health is important.

straightmax12 · Answer

That I don't want to produce or adopt any children because I have no intentions on being a father.

flapdoodle · Answer

I have dental issues and am stalked by Deep State hitmen/honey traps.

Whatsthemeaning · Answer

I have absolutely no inhibitions if you dare me to do something I will

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I do not like clinginess.

Delphier232 · Answer

I'll pay for you lol

Akam93 · Answer

That I'm a difficult, insecure woman.

exitseven · Answer

I am a picky eater.

Anonymous · Answer

That I don't date...

Shamalien · Answer

That I’m not your fucking ex

HaveNoName · Answer

"Stay away... He's married". 😂

Jhunitor · Answer

I am not someone who likes to go out a lot.

maximumpower · Answer

I have a very low tolerance for drama.

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Im trying to become a mushroom 🍄

Passing_by · Answer

I'm very specific and concerned about loyalty.

Being 100% honest, what is the most important thing you would want someone to know about you, before dating you?

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