I am a guy I don't give a crap in how much she earn, it's more about how she use what she got and if she can be happy with it. I don't want anyone that can't handle money, or a girl that can't be happy because she doesn't feel like she got enough.
no, women pretend to be chill about it but they eventually always turn into being condescending and bitchy to a guy that makes less than them. Hypergamy is their nature, they respect men that make at least the same if not more than them.
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I'm not really concerned with what she makes. I'm more concerned with her spending habits/her views on finances. If we don't share a similar philosophy it's not going to work, I don't care if she's a millionaire. I have plenty. Odds are she isn't going to have more than me.
How many times is this question going to be asked? A person who places importance on how much money you earn is an extremely shallow person, and not worth being with anyway. In the mature adult world, What matters is having a job and being a responsible person.
I'm married to a successful man who makes significantly less than I do.
I'm honestly fine with that.
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Yes, I Am In This Scenario With My Fiance'... She Makes About $15,000 More Per Year Than Me, And We Are Both Fine With That, It Has Never Been An Issue... Who Makes The Most Money Is Not Important, Annual Income Between Couples Is Not A Contest... We Both Make Very Good Salaries, We Live Very Comfortably... We Have A Brand New 3 Story Home, Our Wedding Is Just A Few Months Away, Which We Paid For Ourselves In Cash Without Taking From Our Monthly Income... Life Is Good!!!
For me I don’t really care much about the girl’s income so long as she contributes what she can and that it’s reasonable based on what I’m contributing to her and the relationship
Yes it’s not about amount…it’s about the ambition. We have to match expectations for relationships to work. If someone is working toward a mansion and Ferrari she can’t be with a long term coffee barista.
I'm married to a woman who makes more than me, doesn't bother me one bit, in fact I don't even think about it. She went to college and got a degree, I chose not to go to school and have a decent job but she still makes way more. It is what it is
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I am a guy I don't give a crap in how much she earn, it's more about how she use what she got and if she can be happy with it. I don't want anyone that can't handle money, or a girl that can't be happy because she doesn't feel like she got enough.
no, women pretend to be chill about it but they eventually always turn into being condescending and bitchy to a guy that makes less than them. Hypergamy is their nature, they respect men that make at least the same if not more than them.
I'm not really concerned with what she makes. I'm more concerned with her spending habits/her views on finances. If we don't share a similar philosophy it's not going to work, I don't care if she's a millionaire. I have plenty. Odds are she isn't going to have more than me.
How many times is this question going to be asked? A person who places importance on how much money you earn is an extremely shallow person, and not worth being with anyway. In the mature adult world, What matters is having a job and being a responsible person.
To be fair, if these are questions keeping you up, then you should not be marrying.
Marry for love, character and faith - not status or money.
I'm married to a successful man who makes significantly less than I do.
I'm honestly fine with that.
Yes, I Am In This Scenario With My Fiance'... She Makes About $15,000 More Per Year Than Me, And We Are Both Fine With That, It Has Never Been An Issue... Who Makes The Most Money Is Not Important, Annual Income Between Couples Is Not A Contest... We Both Make Very Good Salaries, We Live Very Comfortably... We Have A Brand New 3 Story Home, Our Wedding Is Just A Few Months Away, Which We Paid For Ourselves In Cash Without Taking From Our Monthly Income... Life Is Good!!!
I don't mind if my partner makes more. Im also willing to make up for it in other areas if needed. Its not an issue for me personally.
For me I don’t really care much about the girl’s income so long as she contributes what she can and that it’s reasonable based on what I’m contributing to her and the relationship
Yes it’s not about amount…it’s about the ambition. We have to match expectations for relationships to work. If someone is working toward a mansion and Ferrari she can’t be with a long term coffee barista.
Yes. Money is meant to meet your needs and some desires. It's just paper.
To reject someone who likes me and I like them and get along great will be very immature and stupid just because she makes a higher salary than me.
She is gonna resent me because I’ll have an easier time than her as a stay at home dad
just sleeping smoking weed tons of time to exercise I can go fishing go see a movie play PlayStation butt ass naked on the sofa while she is working
I don't have a problem with that. I'd want to make more than my partner tbh
I'm married to a woman who makes more than me, doesn't bother me one bit, in fact I don't even think about it. She went to college and got a degree, I chose not to go to school and have a decent job but she still makes way more. It is what it is
Since I'm currently taking an education that will result in me having a pretty high paying job, I doubt that my husband will make more than me.
As long as we love each other what would it matter.
Depends on the situation, but probably not. For the sole reason that it statistically increases the likelihood of divorce.
I almost married a homeless guy. That's how POWERFUL Love can be!
My fiancé earns a lot more than me. It don’t bother me. We need it because weddings are expensive!
While I was unemployed for the last 18 months my wife brough in more money than I did. I was okay with it.