My girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me with 4 black guys a week before I proposed to her. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

It might seem like an easy answer but it’s complicated. Me, M28, and my girlfriend F24 of 5 years get engaged a few months ago. I got her parents blessing and our families get along perfectly. A few days ago I found out she had a 5some? Gangbang orgy I don't know what you call it with 4 black guys from her college after a party she was invited to. I ofcourse confirmed this later on by many sources and going through her phone and seeing some texts and pictures. I thought our sex life was ok, she always seemed liked the more outgoing one sexually and I’m not very big on the size situation ( average maybe?). She doesn’t know I know yet. And I don't know what to do. We’ve planned everything, money was paid, families eager and excited. Should I just talk to her about? Leave her? Let it slide?

Updates

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For all those who keep saying this is trolling or I’m bullshitting. You’re not being very helpful. Should I post evidence or what? I’m just asking for opinions.

In regards to any updates, nothing yet other than more information and proof that the cheating happened. I didn’t confront her. But she’s been acting as sneaky as ever. Some of you suggested I leave some suggested I confront her some even said to stay and accept it. The wedding is coming up fast. And I still need time to think.

[Anonymous]

Continue to date her. Get an std test. But ultimately the relationship is doomed, have as much nasty sex as you want with her until you are ready to move on. An ex of mine cheated on me for a year with another guy, I said nothing for six months because she was paying half the rent. I got her to pay the full rent so i could save up for our wedding. I arranged to get the engagement ring I gave her cleaned and a loose stone reset which I lied about. Once the engagement ring was in my hands I moved all my stuff out of our place into a apartment away across town and never said a word. She acted so superior when she was telling me barefaced lies about where she was and what she was doing.

[inhua]

you already know what the answer is. yes just dump her. if they didn't give her any special treatment, neither should you.

there's probably videos of her posted all over porn sites by now. the porn industry has a knack for seeking out college girls and offering them money to do porn.

[KittyKat90210]

Dump her now and tell her why. But they were guys, not "black guys". Their race doesn't make it any better or worse.

[Gummy_Cluster]

While you're figuring it out, I'm going to take a nap and try and stop laughing.

[AviatorTom]

You should plan another gang bang for her, film it and post it on the Internet... make a lot of money. Get real, and stop trolling a ridiculous story.

[Guy13]

I woukd be out. Character revealed. You are not important to her.

[OlderAndWiser]

This can't possibly be a serious question!

[terry49]

If this actually happened I would say you are in trouble unless you are into that lifestyle. You might be wise to postpone any marriage ideas and see if it happens again. If it does then you need to be willing to accept it because she will not stop although she might be willing to stay with you for the security she needs while getting her sexual needs elsewhere.

[Bemidii]

Lololololol 🤣🤣

You should be a scriptwriter

[Iron_Man]

You’ve got to be kidding me are you sure you’re not having a little bit of fun at our expense?

[Bemidii]

4 black guys? That's hilarious 😂

[ShadezMcgee]

I am throwing a challenge flag and calling bullshit on this post.

[Brando10222]

Take your ring and remove her out of your life completely. Tell your and her parents both why you are ending it.

[Anonymous]

So you married a cheating pig and got cucked.

What's stopping you from a divorce?

On second thought... this might be a waste of time.

[Anonymous]

Well, I guess she loves sex but maybe just not with you and maybe you should confront her with it so at least she’ll know why you’re leaving her

[Yellovv]

Seem like she want open relationship, you should be ready for that...

[Anonymous]

Dump her and be grateful you found out now, and not after you married the whore.

[Anonymous]

Listen if you're gonna troll do a better job of it jackass

[Opinion Owner]

dude nobody wants to see your perverted jerkoff porn collection save that for your private wee wee time and if you want to jerk off to that whore cop who blew and fucked 5 cops then that's on you. you do whatever you want in your own private wee wee play time

[Anonymous]

either leave her or spend your life as her cuck

[Dargil]

Do what you feel is right for you.

[Anonymous]

Fake story.

[Anonymous]

This gets the troll of the day award.

[Twalli]

Since she didn't tell you, I'd probably dump her.

[sadgirl0210]

Leave her ass

[NostalgiaSenpi]

End it.