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My friend is sleeping with his crush, yet he is due to be married soon. What should I do? (Page 2)
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How the F to men like this even find women? Does the other woman know? Wow what a selfish prick. Hope karma gets to him. I don't think you can do much. Because apparently we have to mind our own business.. which I find a dumb excuse not to do anything.
He needs to reconsider this marriage stuff. As somebody else said... you've become his accomplice. He's already cheating... why is he gonna just get married to some chick he has to cheat on already.
Well , he is creating a bit of a mess obviously , its not a good way to start , initially encourage him to put the wedding back and gain some time , that way he can continue with the 2nd relationship prior to breaking it all up.
Show his fiancé proof.
Better she leave him now than after they’re married.
Unless you want to see him lose his life-savings, then by all means just let this play out on it’s own.
Unfortunately there isn’t anything you can do. He already knows it’s wrong but he’s doing it anyway. There will be some long term bad consequences for him. But you have to stay out of this. It’s not your problem.
Do nothing lol. Let them self-destruct. 😈
Also. How tf are you friends with a cheater? Makes no sense.
Looks like you got a crush on him too.
Do nothing/say nothing. This is a very sad situation but nothing good will come from it if you get involved. Particularly for you. Say nothing and it's possible you can keep a friend.
Who the hell wants a friend like that?
@Sasha0426 ... best of the shitty options.
I rather end my friendship with someone who thinks it’s ok to betray your partner.
Ask him why he's marrying his fiancé and not his crush, or why is he bothering to get married to another girl if she's not out of his system? Tell him it's not going to change when it gets married, so unless she wants to be a cuck queen, he needs to re-think the whole matrimony deal.
You don't need to ask that, because he doesn't care about if it makes sense or not.
He only cares about the shit that he's getting right now.
@es20490446e Obviously.
Tell the wife and cut yourself off from all of them, don’t get involved with a married man period. Definitely don’t get involved with a chatter
If after learning this about him you still want to be his friend, encourage him to be honest in a supportive way, but do not interfere directly. He'll either learn from his mistake, or he never will.
He wouldn't be my friend anymore. And i’d be super tempted to rat him out to his fiance but i feel like its not my place
Yeah wouldn't be my friend either. I'd be inclined to give him the option of being ratted or correcting the circumstance.
In effect, as a friend, I'm participating in a particularly repugnant immoral act. And I am just not going to do something so nasty.
Can understand 'its not my place' because we do take an ambiguous position on infidelity as a society but this is the mass shooting of cheating.
@RavVid i’d definitely snap on the friend before ending the friendship. I just wouldn't rat them out. A lot of my friends cheated on their boyfriends and girlfriends. I have cut very many off. I am guilty of emotionally cheating and they snapped at me about that before but for them to go and physically cheat and to be proud to brag about it, that hits different
It is going to happen in life that you know that someone has cheated on their partner and I have certainly been guilty of emotional cheating as well. It is not unknown for a person to take up with a past lover as well.
We never know all the circumstances of course and that is why we don't rat I guess.
This is so egregious it would push me over my boundary line. Not saying everybody should have that boundary line or even that my boundary line is right.
@RavVid i don’t rat because i still felt a sense of loyalty to the person. I knew their secrets, they knew mine. If i ruin their shit, they could ruin mine. So more of an eye for an eye thing because i can be hella petty. I couldve always ratted them out. But most people want too many details when you try to tell them the truth. They want to know when, where, how often, if you got pics, etc. I’m not about to do all that shit for free lmao
I keep my bad shit closely to myself :) I always assume if I tell anybody anything the whole knows.
@RavVid this was back when i was in school and somewhat ashamed of my sexual side. After school, i stopped giving af and am pretty much an open book
My answer
Mind you're own business
That's his life, let him fuck it up
It's not your place to stick your nose in where it don't belong
Screw that noise, rat on the bastard before he has kids with his future ex fiance.
Yikes. He should not be getting married, but advising him won't do anything but put yourself in the middle.
Divorce is expensive my dude, and they always find out. Break it off before she breaks her foot off in your ass.
Actually men like that its not uncommon. It really makes no sense to me why some people would get married if they clearly know they will struggle to remain faithful
It doesn't make sense to you because...
it's nonsense. It's not because of sense why they do it, but because of instant gratification.
@es20490446e
well in marriage, you're supposed to be able to resist temptations.
why would you get married if you know you can't resist temptation?
its easier to cheat when she's your girlfriend instead of wife.
https://youtu.be/pigptUSdccw
@es20490446e
you're just a troll. not gonna even view that
I'm not a troll, I'm just a joker.
Don't be a cold fish :P
@es20490446e
most men on here are indecent people anyways. doesn't come as a surprise
Avoid getting involved. Simple.
"Better to keep mouth closed and have people think you are a fool than to open mouth and remove all doubt".
Ultimately, it's his problem. If he already cheated, the relationship is probably already doomed.
Regardless, the best friends can be cruelly honest. Divorce will cost him.
I wouldn't get involved unless you dont care if they are your friend after you do.
Tell him to ball up and tell his fiancé or go and tell her yourself. He a cheater
If his fiance isn't your friend, it's none of your business.