My woman does.
☝️And it's because she is exactly that type of woman that we are in a happy relationship and growing ever stronger.
The women who genuinely love cooking for their men are usually the ones who believe in family values & love. Not like today's modern western women who think that cooking for their men is "beneath" them. Lo and behold, these are the women who are often miserable and alone. They have no issues doing favors for their boss, but when it comes to a man they are supposedly in a relationship with? No way José! But you as a man are EXPECTED to uphold your traditional values. Otherwise, you can forget about that sex that you are only getting once every 2 months!
My message to these ladies: If you don't want a traditional man who takes care of you, make sure to play your part as a traditional woman as well. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Until then, enjoy your cats.
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Some women do. There’s a fine line though between cooking for two and cooking for someone you love. Crossing that line actually makes a huge impact on me, and i think a lot of men. Not necessarily even cooking per se. Just preparing some food for another.
One time, at band camp, a woman sat me down at her table, offered me a cocktail, and proceeded to make a sandwich for me. Complete with some chips and a pickle on the side. She didn’t even ask if i was hungry or if i wanted something to eat. She just did it. She didn’t make anything for herself except a cocktail of her own. We just sat and talked while i ate. I fell for it. I fell for her. I never got the impression that that was her intention though. Unrequited love is proof that if there is a god, she’s female. Ell oh ell!
Every time a woman has cooked for just herself and me, if it wasn’t already a committed relationship it soon became one. Even if there isn’t love there, feeding someone and being fed by someone sure does feel like love.
I used to but I'm tired of temporary boyfriend or family friends that come and go. I'm exhausted with temporary people. I'm no longer doing ''presenting the guy to my family (part of the hispanic/latin culture) and cooking an elaborated meal'' for him. It's too much investment for nothing.
Unless it's for serious things (and I don't mean ''I love you'' lovebombing BS) and the relationship is heading there, fine. I don't trust easily anymore. I have no motivation to make anyone (maybe my family at times and for myself) meal nor presenting anyone to my family again nor even posting pictures if I'm on another date. What for?
I cook for him, yes. Usually 3 or 4 days of the week, and he cooks on the other days or we order takeout or something. I'm not that great of a cook honestly but I'm getting better. Sometimes we order the meal kits like Hello Fresh, and it helps me learn some new techniques, plus I can make those meals over and over again.
I'm much better at baking though, and I enjoy that more. My husband is much better at cooking than I am. Since our work schedules are almost the same, we share household duties when we're both at home together.
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Yes I cook for my husband most days. He takes over dinner maybe 1-2 times a week tho when he knows that I'm too busy to cook.
She can cook 👩🍳 once she gives me that Friday pay check 💵…..
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I still cook food and bake different sweets with all the love I have since I am a wife and a mom. I enjoy cooking getting compliments on the food and seeing their happy expressions while eating brings joy to me.
There are 'some' modern women who can cook, but very, very few. The ones I've met who say they can cook, really can't. I mean they can open a can of soup, put some lettuce in a bowl and pour some dressing on it, but the real cooking skills their grandmothers had are truly lost on them, and most have no interest in learning. I know a lot of guys my age who are relatively good cooks, and some who are very good, but I have only met one woman in her 20s or early 30s who can cook. It's very disheartening when I think about the prospect of marrying a modern woman. Many don't even want to be mothers, and the ones who do would prefer to pay someone else to mother their children for them. What use do these women serve in a man's life other than sex?
Yes. My parents do this. But when I am in a relationship one day, I would like to see the man trying at least, like not just leaving it all for the woman to do thinking it's our duty or something. Like come on, it's 2023 not the 1800s. No offence.
She tries... but women can't cook as well as I do. I would trust any man's cooking here over any of the women's... just saying. Edible isn't as good as restaurant quality. Don't believe me? take a peek in the kitchen the next time you're out to eat at some restaurant. Tell me if you see a chick at all. Nope... the chicks are out there with the beta males asking you what your order is and coming by your table asking how the food is.
Yes. I make breakfast, lunch and dinner for my fiancè. Only when we are outside I normally don’t cook. Cooking and baking are both my hobbies so I don’t see it as an obligation or a gender role. I love feeding my man! He loves all of my cookings and pastries.
It is nice if she cooks for me. I prefer to pour her some bourbon/whiskey in a mason jar, and have her sit in the Adirondack chair with her feet propped-up while I make her a nice meal on the grill. I love making new things on the grill or fire and getting my girl to try them out.
If they're smart. Learning what makes your partner feel loved is a vital part of any relationship, and while it's of course going to vary from person to person what exactly that is, feeding them is a VERY safe bet for men. Probably for women, too, if to a lesser degree.
Personally I'd prefer we take turns. As arrogant as it may sound, my tastebuds enjoy my own cooking much more than anything else so I'm gonna need my own food sometimes too.
Plus feeding others is my love language so i would generally prefer taking the the role more.Not gonna lie, it depends on the couple. I am not in a relationship at the moment, but, my parents take turns cooking for one another. Sometimes my mom does it, sometimes my dad. They even it out so that the burden doesn't get to the other.
I have him in mind when I cook.
So, I usually add at least one of his favorite dishes to the lineup I serve.
He's very appreciative.
I do all the cooking and baking. Early in our relationship it was a show of love. Now it's a matter of survival. I don't think my husband can cook.
We take turns.
It really depends who gets home first.
Right now our schedules means he gets home first. He’ll cook and I’ll sous chef and clean. Then on weekends, I’ll cook.I’ll admit I’m not a very good cook, but I can bake like there’s no tomorrow. Cookies, monkey bread, Carmel puffcorn. You name it I can pretty much bake it.
Most women in modern times cannot cook and clean. A lot of guys have to be cleaning up after their girlfriend and often couples order takeout. Modern day women have abandon in a lot of ways what it means to be feminine and think that dressing up sexy and giving men sex is enough for a relationship.
I believe this sums it up quite nicely:
https://youtu.be/sIKUkcNeZfQI agree, it really does show love and care when you cook for someone. Therefore, I wonder why most men don’t cook for their women. . Hmm🧐
Man = previously marrier. Woman = previously married. They probably do.
I have never previously married, though I am an excellent cook (and chef). Michelin star level at least, and that from casual interest.
To be honest trend is transformed, according to me both genders cooking equally.
In my house girlfriend's mom mostly cooking on weekdays, weekend give her rest, my girlfriend and I cook, so she has to just eat and relax.
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