I would actually love that, earlier I used to feel the opposite and I am an excellent cook myself. However, men cooking in relationships don't work, women tend to lose respect for you, take you for granted, and then leave as they will not have much to do in that relationship. Men are already expected to be financially stable and provide, irrespective of their cooking skills, better focus on that.
I really slaute men or women who cooks for their love ones, whether amazing or simple meal. Its a true act of service that anyone won't deny🥰
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I don't know how to cook but I want to learn. It's hard when you don't get those skills passed down to you from your mother. And most girls I grew up with did not have the benefit of that "mentoring".
Why is it that the woman has to cook for her man? Why can't the man cook for his woman? Or both? I cook and bake, and enjoy it, I don't want to enter into a relationship and have someone else do all the cooking
I think that is a very old fashioned way to look at it. Nowadays people don't show love that way. In fact, vast majority of millenials and gen z celebrate eating out over cooking.
I cooked for a spouse for a while many moons ago; he’d always come home late and bitch that the food was cold. Offered to heat it up and he complained it wasn’t fresh. Cooking for a man is just a chore. No thanks 🙏
Well I can speak for myself, I wouldn’t react that way to a woman who loved me enough to cook for me. Many people think showing affection is just the physical touch or buying gifts. I’ve never felt that way and I think taking care of the person you love means a lot more than just the act of cooking a meal or helping around the house.
My wife spoils me. Not only she makes me dinner, she also makes my lunches for work for me.
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I literally don't know any women my age who can cook. I mean they can boil pasta and heat some spaghetti sauce, but that's about it. I'm sure there are women who can cook, they are just rare.
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I would actually love that, earlier I used to feel the opposite and I am an excellent cook myself. However, men cooking in relationships don't work, women tend to lose respect for you, take you for granted, and then leave as they will not have much to do in that relationship. Men are already expected to be financially stable and provide, irrespective of their cooking skills, better focus on that.
I really slaute men or women who cooks for their love ones, whether amazing or simple meal. Its a true act of service that anyone won't deny🥰
I don't know how to cook but I want to learn. It's hard when you don't get those skills passed down to you from your mother. And most girls I grew up with did not have the benefit of that "mentoring".
Most girls have always sucked ass at cooking. Just go to YouTube to learn
@RandomGuy1030 That may be true today but it wasn't in the past.
Yes it was. People were accustomed to shit food though
@RandomGuy1030 You pretty ignorant.
Nah we just ate like shit before feminism liberated mankind from bad home-cooked meals
@RandomGuy1030 Yeah, you an idiot.
Name me a good recipe housewives cooked 200 years ago?
@RandomGuy1030 200 years ago? Fuck off.
You realize by 100 years ago, women didn't cook anymore?
@RandomGuy1030 The scope and magnitude of your ignorance just keeps expanding.
Why is it that the woman has to cook for her man? Why can't the man cook for his woman? Or both? I cook and bake, and enjoy it, I don't want to enter into a relationship and have someone else do all the cooking
It does mean a lot but I think girls more assemble now. By that I mean heat up pre-cooked food and open salad packs with included dressing.
My husband and I will take turns. But yes, I cook for him and for the kids.
Of course they do. My mom cooks for my dad & my sisters cook for their husbands.
I think that is a very old fashioned way to look at it. Nowadays people don't show love that way. In fact, vast majority of millenials and gen z celebrate eating out over cooking.
In my marriage, my husband and I take turns cooking because we both love cooking :)
I think it is not something obligatory but if she like cooking she still cook for her man
Only if he deserves it and even tho I like to cook I definitely wouldn't cook everyday
But generally speaking, a majority of women still are the only one cooking and cleaning smh
I cooked for a spouse for a while many moons ago; he’d always come home late and bitch that the food was cold. Offered to heat it up and he complained it wasn’t fresh.
Cooking for a man is just a chore. No thanks 🙏
That’s awful
Well I can speak for myself, I wouldn’t react that way to a woman who loved me enough to cook for me. Many people think showing affection is just the physical touch or buying gifts. I’ve never felt that way and I think taking care of the person you love means a lot more than just the act of cooking a meal or helping around the house.
i hate cooking, but if i know there's something you love, i'll make it for you
some women still cook for there man. But a lot of people nowadays just order food from there phones.
We both cook but he does a majority of it which is great and works out since I clean up and do the dishes it balances out more evenly
My wife spoils me. Not only she makes me dinner, she also makes my lunches for work for me.
I literally don't know any women my age who can cook. I mean they can boil pasta and heat some spaghetti sauce, but that's about it. I'm sure there are women who can cook, they are just rare.
A lot of things are a "show of love.". But cooking takes time and effort. So you shouldn't just expect that from someone.
Most women need a GPS to find the kitchen, and have no idea what to do once in the kitchen (except take a selfie).
My wife is one hell of a Chinese cook 👍🙂❤️