She's opened up to me a lot about personal stuff with her baby daddy and her current living situation, on top of an hour and a half drive away from me. Yesterday when she told me about her living situation I told her that wasn't a problem for me at all and essentially, here is what I responded with.
"Going through all of that was probably traumatizing, and talking about it again with be and reliving that through words again... I can’t even imagine and I appreciate you so much for telling me that. The bottom line is I’ve really really come to like you. (A lot if that isn’t obvious already) and I know that your past probably makes you have hesitations about getting into a relationship out of fear something like that may happen again. Then you said you just wanted someone to love you and your daughter which touched my heart. I understand all of that The fact of the matter is…that I can say it all I want. And honestly I try to say it as much as I can without annoying you (lol) but I want you to know it. However the only true way of proving it to you is by showing you. Making the two of you feel it, see it first hand, in person, over and over and over again. So if it means having to get a hotel or being out and about with the two of you and not at your place, or literally WHATEVER it is I have to do. I’m more than happy to do it. You’re a sweetheart who fell into my arms and for that lll be your knight and do whatever needs to happen until we end up with a place of our own."
Thats when she said ""What did I do to deserve you...😔". The emoji adds another level of curiosity for me.
Thoughts?
What Girls Said
She found a good soul to listen to her problems and you have done more than just listening to them. You gave the impression that you were genuinely interested and she is holding onto you like on a lifeline.
I hope you realize that she is trying to mellow you to take over where her current relationship with her baby father is stuck at. Please realize that she is trying to wrap you around her finger. Whatever the reason is for you to believe her story, be very careful not to cross this border and to do something that you may regret later. It would not be fair to the lady and certainly not to her kid to lead them on and to make them believe that you actually care.
It may be a novelty right now but what about in 10 years from now when the problems with the adolescent child are really getting serious?
It's pure cheese. Ignore it.