She just probably feels that your better than her and she has too much going on in her life that makes her feel that she is not good enough. I once said that to a boyfriend because he had a lot of good things going on in his life and I was not in a good place so I told him that and also I felt that I wasn't pretty enough but he reassured me that I did deserve him and that he loved me no matter what and that I was beautiful. So my advice is to just tell her that you love her no matter what and that you accept her for who she is and tell her she is beautiful k.
like u said, that girl is insecure, she doesn't feel good enough for him, it's hard for her to see the good things about her, and well, "we accept the love we deserve" so she probably doesn't believe she deserve his love.
There was a woman I was after. We dated just 3 months and I thought things were looking great. There were no complaints and she was even bragging me up to one of her friends - in my presence. She told me that didn't deserve me. I guess I just came on too strong and assumed she was OK with me. There was one time she told me that her sister said she didn't deserve me. I stopped going over to see her. I got a scathing phone afterward but I managed to get over her. I'm actually craving a relationship that was as cool as we had but with no ending like that.
I guess she's just signalling that he needs to try harder if he's really into her. Appearing inferior is not a protective mechanism but a measure that increases her availability but subtly. In other words, appearing hard to get by distancing and thus increasing value. It's fucked up to be honest.
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He should show her how he feels instead of telling her.
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