How would you deal with your jealousy partner?

[Anonymous]

I been with this guys for just a few weeks. We met on dating site then we decided to meet at a club with our friends and ended up we had sex then we started to go on a real date and one week after we decided to be officially as a couple , he asked me to make my instagram private before he ask me to be his girlfriend so I did , wanted me to stop going to the club so I did, wanted to post him on instragram so I did, n I was posting something randomly on instagram and he thought it was about my ex so he asked me to delete it so I did again but he never post me or unfollow a girl on his instragram. How would u deal with jealousy partner yourself?

[Anonymous]

Well, what I would do is...

1. I'd sit down and find out if he wants to date me or not

If he isn't officially dating me then I'd stop doing all that stuff.
It makes zero sense for me.
I don't even need to think of #2 until I do the first part.

[Anonymous]

That's not jealousy but controling. He's wanting to control your actions from what you have said. I don't think anything he has done is okay behaviour. The only way asking you not to post something is if it involved him in someway or something that should be kept private then him saying/asking would be reasonable. The club one. As a partner I believe you could express concern or worry if you didn't have transport and were going alone but not to stop anything.

[Anemone978]

No idea... I would say jealous partners are not good to have anyways... but if he keeps it up I would start telling him I want you to make your account private, I want you to delete this, just play the same game as him... and hopefully you will break up because guys like that are annoying anyways... this is why I don't recommend sleeping with a guy before you know him or he claims you...

[weysally]

sorry I'm lost, you had sex then you had a date, wasn't that a date so you could havesex

[Asker]

So we met at the club n it wasn’t a date cuz we both come with our friends then I went to his room then we have sex

[weysally]

right, I understand. by the way how was the sex?

[Asker]

It’s really good like it was the best I had, he makes sure to make me finish before him n he treated me good outside the bedroom too

[weysally]

so it's just his jealousy, I'm very lucky there, I don't think my husband has a jealous bone in his body, which is heavenly

[Asker]

I’m happy he jealous tho cuz if he’s not I’m not gonna think that we’re in a relationship but I think it’s too controlling on my social media

[weysally]

yes, I see what you mean, I was like that age 21, but now 30 years of marriage, and don't misunderstand, both my husband and I look at things a lot differently

[Anonymous]

You are 19 and living like a dummy because of an idiot
Don’t be stupid restore your life and leave him FOREVER

[Guardian45]

Ya he's a manipulator. Dump his ass. Move on. NEXT!!!

[Anonymous]

I don't make partner i make enemies.
So i dunno lol.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'd dump them